I wrote my boyfriend a letter explaining how I'm feeling and now hes speaking to me. what to do?

I wote my boyfriend a letter explaining how I feel and we talked till like 2 in the morning and he hasnt said a word to me today not at all what should I do? what should I say? I don't want loose him











heres the letter I wrote to him:





';Dear Babe,








I know that I have already written you a letter on how I feel. I feel the same now. Your still brightening up my day whenever I see you. Every kiss, soft on the lips cheeks or forehead, still makes me get butterflies in my stomach.





All of your good qualities always outweigh everything else. I am still in another world and not in reality when you hold me. I love everything that we do together whether it is going to the movies or going to the snow or a concert.








Even though these things outweigh everything else, I still need to get some stuff off of my chest.





Here it goes. I don鈥檛 know if you have realized, but, not everything, but most of the small stuff that has happened in our relationship has had an effect on me. Like skipping out on hanging out with me when we made plans for that day and not so much as a call to tell me they were off that would have only taken 30 seconds to a minuet out of your day, just so I could have made other plans with someone else. I am not saying that I do not love everything else about you, but just so you know if you at least could take at least 30 seconds out of your day to tell me that plans are off only so I am not waiting all day for a call I won鈥檛 even get. I love you so much, and the love out rules the pain and it always will since it鈥檚 only a little. I will admit it鈥檚 the smallest thing to get hurt over, I just didn鈥檛 know if you realized it or not. I know that most of the time it is not your fault, well actually almost all the time it is your mom鈥檚 fault. I love you so much and this is why I am telling you only to get my feelings out in the open. I know that I don鈥檛 always show it, but it鈥檚 mostly because I don鈥檛 want you to worry about me, and I don鈥檛 want to be viewed as the one who can鈥檛 take care of herself and complains all the time. I am working on the complaining issues in my life and I am learning that if the problem doesn鈥檛 have to deal with the person direct that there is no reason to complain and that I should just stop what I鈥檓 saying think about it and ask myself if the problem affects the person I am talking to directly. I don鈥檛 know if this makes sense or not that I love you so much that it hurts (in the good way).





I know that you and your mom don鈥檛 get along a lot of the time and mostly only when I am around, and still sometimes it does not work out between the two of you. I just wanted you to know that I am always here for you, and that if you need someone to talk to it鈥檚 your turn to talk and my turn to listen and give advice. I know it might seem I鈥檓 playing doctor again when I say this, but I just want to be a great girlfriend to you, but also your best friend that you can turn to when you need to just let it all out. I just want to be that person that you choose to turn to first. For some reason with all my other friends I seem to be the first person they come to for advice, even the ones I only met 2 years ago. I鈥檓 not saying that I have to be the first one you come to and I鈥檓 not saying that I need to give you advice cause you probably already know what I am going to say, but even just to listen cause sometimes listening is more powerful than words.





Remember when you asked if I ever got jealous because I told you that I use to get jealous? The truth is that I sometimes do get jealous. Not because of the girls that you are friends with or because I think that someone else could be better for you (yes I do sometimes think this because of the way I am and because of everything that I have put you through within 6 months), but because of the lifestyle you have. As hard as this might be believable to you, but the truth is I am. Yea I am jealous that you have friends that you can turn to in time of need and that you can trust. I am jealous that you have grandpa鈥檚 that actually love you and don鈥檛 criticize everything you do and that you actually get to see them more than I get to see mine, especially my mom鈥檚 dad. I only remember meeting him once in person even though I got to talk to him on the phone. I don鈥檛 have a lot of memories of him like you do of yours. I also get jealous of your friends. As much as I know you try to balance your friends with me, I still get jealous when I know that sometimes friends come first, and that they know you better and what is going on without you having to tell them. I don鈥檛 know if that is true actually, but I want to know if there is something going on in your life without you having to tell me that there is. I also get jealous of just you as a person. I am jealous of you mostly because you are not afraid to be yourself and to make people laugh whether it is or at you, but most of the time it is with you. Your not afraid of showing your true sI wrote my boyfriend a letter explaining how I'm feeling and now hes speaking to me. what to do?
I got half way through the first big paragraph before rolling my eyes and clicking 'answer'





I wonder how far your boyfriend got...








Two things would cross almost any guys mind after receiving a letter like that.





'Hmm I think I'd better distance myself from her asap'





'Hmm looks like she's desperate for me. I wonder how many dirty things I can do to her before I distance myself from her'








Next time save your self respect and try not to tell him every tiny thing that goes through your mind.I wrote my boyfriend a letter explaining how I'm feeling and now hes speaking to me. what to do?
what's wrong if hes speaking to you ?
Wow that is quite a deep in-depth letter. If my boyfriend was to send me something like that, I would need time to think about what has been said. He won't keep ignoring you but at the moment he may just need time to think about what he wants to do. The worst thing you can do is keep pressuring him and getting him to talk. He will when he's ready.
I scanned your letter but I didnt have to even read half to know the problem... you seem like a nice girl for writing this guy the letter. Guys are dumb... They will treat you how you want, especially if your nice... If I were I wouldn't try anymore. Don't call him etc... Let him call you... Wait until its his idea to make plans. If hes just not showing up, hes just not hat into you. If a guy really cares about you he will spend time with you and no one will get in the way of that.





Dont tell guys your jealous - especially if they're not good guys - they will feed off of that and most probably make situations where you will get jealous - cuz the more jealous you get the more he has you.





Don't try to ';fix'; guys your not going! That's just how it is. If they come to you and ask for help you can but that probably wont happen.





The best advice I could give you is dump him and move on, but because that's probably not going to happen just back off some give him space and let him come to you. But eventually - unless he starts treating you good and doing what he says hes going to do - dump him please!





As I said you seem like a nice girl you deserve better. You also seem young so look at that as an advantage and start looking for good guys who will respect you etc...





Good Luck with everything.