Ok so theres this girl who i like but im not sure if she likes me,
there was recently a dance and she texted me before asking if i was going to dance with her and i said definitely. so me n her danced at the dance all night right from the getco. After the dance i was supposed to go out to eat with her but didn't because her phone was dead and i couldnt get a hold of her but ended up goign to the same place she was at. i noticed she kept starin at me and turned away when i looked at her same as i stared at her. but i didn't try to hook up with her because i didnt want to move too fast plus she broke up with her boyfriend 3 weeks ago after a year long relationship. i believe she is playing hard to get because shes not talking to me and she told me she would text me back the other night but she never did. Either she likes me and is playing hard to get or she doesn't like me at all. In school shes always hitting me and stuff. I'm so confused right now. Its like she wanted me and she was holding my hand and stuff it was like we were going out when we were at the dance. the thing is she is ignoring me, not completely but won't answer my texts sometimes. i believe that she does like me but yet again theres times where i dont think so. im shy and wont tell a girl that i like them because im afraid of it making things weird between us.im pretty sure she already knows i like her without even telling her. After the dance we were both telling each other how much fun we had and she told me how i looked cute at the dance, she said it was good that she got out.
if she is playing hard to get how do i go about in not exactly going after her but to surpass her playing hard to get, its hard to say in words.
any ideas? greatly appreciated for all your helpDoes she like me or not?
I think she's playing mind games with you and playing hard to get. Sounds to me as if she does like you but sometimes doesn't know how to show it exactly.
Hope it helps.Does she like me or not?
Well, just tell her the way you feel about her, I know you're nervous, and everyone is, but the worst she can do is reject you! and so what if she does? you're supposed to think ';Well, it's HER loss, not mine.';
from what you say I think she does like you but I think that she may need more time getting over her ex just try to be her friend and hang out because if you were meant to be it will likely happen just give her time
no!MAN YOU NEED TO BECOME A MAN!take control.oh yeah how many times are you gonna ask this dumb question that you can ask one of your idiot friends
No, you need to man up and tell her you like her. I know her phone was dead, but did you ever tell her that's why you didn't go with her to eat after the dance? She probably felt totally rejected, bud. Tell her you like her and want to hang out with her again cuz you had so much fun last time. You can even subtract the ';I like you'; part but still ask her to hang out.
dang how many times are you gonna ask this question?!?!
yes she likes you!!!!!!! or maybe she doesn't!!!!!! how are we supposed to freakin know?
edit: well just read other peoples questions..dude its flipping annoying when you post the same question multiple times in less than 24 hours.
Same kind of thing happened to me. Kissed a girl one night and she hardly spoke to me afterwards. It turned out she'd liked me even more ever since. The only way to find out is to confront her. The worst that'll happen is that she'll ignore you, in which case you walk away. Be calm and subtle, and act curiouis not desperate.
Friday, August 20, 2010
What should I do? I can't live without him but he's playing with me...?
Me and my ex are 'bffl's' according to him. The problem is i still love him..ok i guess i should slow down. We've been on and off for months. He plays this game where he's all like 'I love you, no joke' then 2 weeks later hes talking about how he wants to take a break because we're 'not a good match', 'im too attached' and how he likes someone else..that someone else is my ex best friend Maranda. She's gorgeous but a fake slut! She lies and shes so ******* obnoxious. I know that she doesn't deserve him cause she tells me all this **** about how he's 'butt ugly' and that she doesn't like him.. except the day before he dumped me they were all over each other..and she told my best friend Taylor that they 'might go out' on the phone 2 days after he dumped me for the THIRD time. I've been hurt so many times and i really do love him. He's my forth boyfriend and i've had year relationships but i've never felt this way...what should i do? I know in my heart i can't take him back cause he's playing this game..but i don't know. (I asked this question a few minutes ago but i need to add something) I CAN'T let him go. You don't understand, i believe in myself but its fricking HARD. I've puked the night before he dumped me for the 3rd time..a week ago. and I also puked when, two days later when she was still my friend, Maranda slept over and he kept calling me and asking to talk to her and she was talking about her *** and flirting and everything..and i went to the kitchen, puked in the sink, and before we were in my room and having a heart to heart, i was crying, mascara running down my face, and before we went to bed she said to him 'You need to stop liking me because my friend is like, breaking down and you don't even care' and he was just like 'Okay? Well let me talk to her' and i calmed myself down and barely talked to him, just listened. He's all like 'I'm sorry!' and stuff but i think he was just saying that cause his slut was there....i dont even know. I don't have the strength to let him go! I've never breaking down for a guy before, or puked!! This is serious.. I'm playing hard to get and stuff cause i know hes immature and doesn't want a serious relationship. Believe me, I know but i can't just be 'bffl's' without breaking down........I need him, he's everything to me. I know he still cares about me because the day he broke up with me hes like in a text 'i still like you 5/10' and stuff but the next day we went skating and of course, who showed up? MARANDA. Yay... shes such a lying skank. Patrick(HIS NAME) always calls me especially with his friends just to scream and be obnoxious with his friends. Like, his friend Lucas who i sorta like left 2 messages on my cell. 'Patrick said if you shave your uni-brow and get a better personality you might have a shot.' and ****. 1. I DON'T HAVE A ******* UNI BROW. There is no hair between my eyebrows. And 2. That's ******* rude and i went off on his phone like telling him what a fake asshole he is, and that i know he's just trying to be cool for his friends and **** but he said he never did that and that lucas had to hold his phone cause he had no pockets and they were playing manhunt...I believed him and now we talk like 'friends' this all happened over break(2 weeks) so i don't have a clue what to do? If you're just going to tell me what an asshole he is and how i deserve better and have to let him go and crap, i know. I know but i still can't let him go...advice? If you read this whole thing- thanks. :]] %26lt;3What should I do? I can't live without him but he's playing with me...?
';If you love something let it go, if it comes back then it's yours';. I know that this is touche, but it is true. It's so weird that some guys go through phases in which they disregard their feelings as well as yours. This won't solve every problem right now, but can serve as foundation to solve other matters.
1. Take care of you. Take time to find out what you like, don't like, will tolerate, won't tolerate, what will make you successful in life and as a person. You must love yourself before you can love someone else and be content with yourself, just in case this doesn't go as planned.
2. Knowing yourself is realizing that how he is making you feel is not what you want to feel like and no one should have to go through this. Therefore, do not engage in tic for tac behavior. We reap what we sow.
3. Lastly, you must love and belief in love. Love him for what he is and is not, kill him with kindness at all times, and do not let him ruffle your feathers. The ball has to be in your court and you can't give him any reason to doubt you. Nagging, complaining, crying, etc. may be counterproductive at this points, so refrain from doing so if possible. He's seen all that; now show him what he's missing or else he won't understand.
Both persons must mature and want things to work out. You can't change him, but you can help him grow.What should I do? I can't live without him but he's playing with me...?
I think it is pretty obvious you have to let the guy grow up, let him go it is not really worth it. Yes you love him but does he feel the same way. I believe that in a relationship its a two way process because you can't force someone to love you, you have to let him be. If its meant to be then it is meant to be. As they all say there are too many fish i the ocean so if you really love him and you see that he is not happy with you then don't be selfish for him and for yourself let him go. I believe that you will find a more better person if you learn to let go.
';If you love something let it go, if it comes back then it's yours';. I know that this is touche, but it is true. It's so weird that some guys go through phases in which they disregard their feelings as well as yours. This won't solve every problem right now, but can serve as foundation to solve other matters.
1. Take care of you. Take time to find out what you like, don't like, will tolerate, won't tolerate, what will make you successful in life and as a person. You must love yourself before you can love someone else and be content with yourself, just in case this doesn't go as planned.
2. Knowing yourself is realizing that how he is making you feel is not what you want to feel like and no one should have to go through this. Therefore, do not engage in tic for tac behavior. We reap what we sow.
3. Lastly, you must love and belief in love. Love him for what he is and is not, kill him with kindness at all times, and do not let him ruffle your feathers. The ball has to be in your court and you can't give him any reason to doubt you. Nagging, complaining, crying, etc. may be counterproductive at this points, so refrain from doing so if possible. He's seen all that; now show him what he's missing or else he won't understand.
Both persons must mature and want things to work out. You can't change him, but you can help him grow.What should I do? I can't live without him but he's playing with me...?
I think it is pretty obvious you have to let the guy grow up, let him go it is not really worth it. Yes you love him but does he feel the same way. I believe that in a relationship its a two way process because you can't force someone to love you, you have to let him be. If its meant to be then it is meant to be. As they all say there are too many fish i the ocean so if you really love him and you see that he is not happy with you then don't be selfish for him and for yourself let him go. I believe that you will find a more better person if you learn to let go.
My boyfriend, i think i am in love? what should i do ! this is serious please help me!?
I think I truly love him. I can honestly say I have not felt this way ever before in my life. I am fourteen years old but don't say i am to young, to be in love. But what he did today really got to me. I mean my boyfriends such a sweetheart, such a nice guy but what he did today was out of line. I was invited to his house for a party for his sisters, i was so polite! i got them gifts and i made sure i was on my best attitude and was very good considering i was around his family. But what happened was at first we were with his friends hanging out, you know how usually guys NEVER kiss or show any type of affection when there around there friends? well he did, he kissed me, and kept kissing me, he held me tight, and we were laughing having such a great time! he even said really loud baby i love you! it impressed me and i liked it, and there were about 4 to 5 friends in his room. But then his ex was going to show up, it really got me mad and i tried not to show it, but it was very hard to hide, so i just kept taking deep breathes i wasn't going to ruin this. Well she showed up i said hi but not nicely, ( i am very a jealous person its just who i am ). Well she came(shes a family friend) but its like he wouldn't even look at me so i moved away so it seemed like i was like HELLOOO talk to me! but he didn't he was talking to her then i texted him and said your ignoreing me and he said no im not your sitting there and i said no you wont even look at me then he said im sorry, then he and his friends went on a walk leaving me and his ex there in the room knowing i didn't like her, then he didn't come back he ignored me. It made me feel embaressed completely. This went on for about four hours, me the first time at his house in his room doing nothing but spinning a chair, he was probably playing pool or something, but that really hurt my feelings a lot. And i am not gonna walk down there because his house is so so so big and id get lost and there was a lot of people there and i was shy. But then he came up four hours later not saying anything to me and then he just kept leaving showing up sometimes. I was just sitting in his room the whole time and even his friends came in and they were talking to me cause they knew he was acting weird, they even said i have a right to be mad. So when my parents showed up I walked out and waved to him, he was playing pool, and i walked away and then his ex (which i found out was extremely nice, i like her!) said HEY SHES LEAVING ! WTH!, and he walked up to me and said your leaving ? and i said well yeah soon and i said we need to talk we talked and i explained how i felt, then he said he was sorry a million times but the sorrys didn't mean anything to me, it really hurt my feelings, we only see eachother on weekends btw so he should have spent time with me, and he said it was awkward cause his ex was there, she might try to break us up, and that they have been on and off for a year. But still put yourself in my shoes, it hurt :(. And he gave me a really big hug kissed me and said he loves me forever and then i said i would never break up with you, she wont ever break us up, even if she tried, and we were good for the last ten minutes i spent with him, but its makeing me feel so bad, i feel embaressed still i've already cried about it:( so please help me its bothering me so much you dont even understand :(My boyfriend, i think i am in love? what should i do ! this is serious please help me!?
long story.
i'm a guy and we do strange things all the time.
so you need to be alone with him and see for yourself what the story is.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Its a guy thing.
He could still really love you and only you.
Time will tell.
ps. thanks for your response earlier
TeddyMy boyfriend, i think i am in love? what should i do ! this is serious please help me!?
aww...i'll be hurt too if i was in your situation...man seeing my man with his ex would be heartbreaking...so i give you props for being brave and in that situation...don't be embarrased...next time if he leaves you for that long just leave and call someone to pick you up because why stay there and be ignored? or text your friends while you are waiting...don't put yourself in that situation again if it's going to hurt you...thats good that you let him know how you felt...it's good to open up and let him know how you feel. hopefully he understands where you are coming from.
as for him and his ex...maybe you should try to figure out if he has any feelings for her...you have to be careful because he still hangs around his ex...
as for you loving him already, still keep your gaurd up because you still have to get to know him...i don't know how long you guys been together so it's kind of hard to tell if he loves you back in a short period of time...relationships go through trials and tribulations. you can say i love you but you will know when you both can be yourself and open up to each other at the same time...
i found love when i was 15...i have been with him for 9 years. he is my high school sweetheart. what makes us worked out was opening up to each other and understand where we both are coming from. i am also a jealous person and i'm shy too! but i'm nice and friendly and i can mingle when i have to lol...if you don't like his ex you don't have to talk to her...if it was me i would do some nice small talk afterall she didn't do anything bad towards you...you can't hate her....plus there was a reason why your boyfriend and his ex broke up hopefully that can help you stop worrying...
your boyfriend is still young...so he would like to hang out with his friends, but it seems like he wants to spend some time with you too. maybe you guys can work something out like him hang with his friends one weekend and you the next weekend. just be cool...when he hangs out with his friends because guys act differently for whatever reason, as long as he shows that he loves you when you guys are together then things should be fine....just keep your jealousy in a box because i remember i got jealous of my boyfriend when he hanged out with his friend...but just go with the flow...good luck and i hope you feel better!
tl;dr
Wow thats long, you could write a book about that, but been there done that. you will get over it i promise, his EX let me repeat EX, cant break you up
long story.
i'm a guy and we do strange things all the time.
so you need to be alone with him and see for yourself what the story is.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Its a guy thing.
He could still really love you and only you.
Time will tell.
ps. thanks for your response earlier
TeddyMy boyfriend, i think i am in love? what should i do ! this is serious please help me!?
aww...i'll be hurt too if i was in your situation...man seeing my man with his ex would be heartbreaking...so i give you props for being brave and in that situation...don't be embarrased...next time if he leaves you for that long just leave and call someone to pick you up because why stay there and be ignored? or text your friends while you are waiting...don't put yourself in that situation again if it's going to hurt you...thats good that you let him know how you felt...it's good to open up and let him know how you feel. hopefully he understands where you are coming from.
as for him and his ex...maybe you should try to figure out if he has any feelings for her...you have to be careful because he still hangs around his ex...
as for you loving him already, still keep your gaurd up because you still have to get to know him...i don't know how long you guys been together so it's kind of hard to tell if he loves you back in a short period of time...relationships go through trials and tribulations. you can say i love you but you will know when you both can be yourself and open up to each other at the same time...
i found love when i was 15...i have been with him for 9 years. he is my high school sweetheart. what makes us worked out was opening up to each other and understand where we both are coming from. i am also a jealous person and i'm shy too! but i'm nice and friendly and i can mingle when i have to lol...if you don't like his ex you don't have to talk to her...if it was me i would do some nice small talk afterall she didn't do anything bad towards you...you can't hate her....plus there was a reason why your boyfriend and his ex broke up hopefully that can help you stop worrying...
your boyfriend is still young...so he would like to hang out with his friends, but it seems like he wants to spend some time with you too. maybe you guys can work something out like him hang with his friends one weekend and you the next weekend. just be cool...when he hangs out with his friends because guys act differently for whatever reason, as long as he shows that he loves you when you guys are together then things should be fine....just keep your jealousy in a box because i remember i got jealous of my boyfriend when he hanged out with his friend...but just go with the flow...good luck and i hope you feel better!
tl;dr
Wow thats long, you could write a book about that, but been there done that. you will get over it i promise, his EX let me repeat EX, cant break you up
What to do when men fight over you?
Ok...so here is my story.(and sorry if it is so long) Iam currently a 6th grader. i am an azn. and guys referr to me as really hot, so damn sexi and beautiful. I have a boyfriend. been together for 6 months and we are still going. dont say anything but i do love him. Im no one of those girls where i just blurt out the 3 words to anyone. and i know what love is. some girls say that they have to think about marriage before they say those 3 words. thats not true to me. If thats how u judge if you love someone than they have the wrong idea...
anyways... yea. so my boyfriend really cares about me and doesnt even let other guys stare at me. he is protective but i like it. For now, i know 2 other guys that like me.... 1 of them i just can not stand. he is wayy to much of a gentleman and acts like a whimp. the other one is a really big flirt but can be really nice. I try to stay away as much as i can from the first guy but the ';flirt'; is one of my friends. at yesterday at P.E...my boyfriend was playing basketball. I think its called hot shot? its when you try to get as much points as you can in 1 min. he was in the lead with 32 points and was sitting in a chair for if ';your in the lead';. I was sitting there with ';the flirt'; and he asked me for a hug and i gave him one but he wouldnt let go of me.. i was cheering my boyfriend on and he was just staring at me and he said ';damn, i wish you were single';.... there was this one time he asked for a hug and he called my boyfriends name and he looked at me and i pulled him away. my boyfriend's best friend was sitting right behind us and telling my boyfriend that i was flirting with him. which i wasnt! he was flirting with me. so he got really pist. when we got out of the locker room he was heading for the stairs and i ran after him and he just said.'; Get Away'; and he wouldnt look at me. i could tell he was hurt. i ran to the top of the stairs before he did and he still didnt want to talk to me. he just wanted to get in class. Remember the first guy? the guy that likes me but i hate him? he was part of the reason why my boyfriend was mad at me cause he was also the one that told him. so i slapped him really hard and my boyfriend ran away.. we talked when we got home and he said he was mad cause '; the flirt'; was giving me hugs and i didnt even do anything about it. he ended up not being mad at me anymore. cause he can never get mad at me.
the next day at skool. whenever he saw '; the flirt'; he just stared at him and nodded his head. ';the flirt'; started to get scared. when we were at P.E. my boyfriend whooped his *** in the locker room but it didnt hurt as much. when i came out he was laughing. me and my friend Quincy were talking and ';the flirt'; said. *****. u dont wanna talk to her or her boyfriend is gonna whoop yo ***. '; the flirt'; got in trouble cause he was touchin me in the wrong places. My boyfriend didnt want me even talkin to ';the flirt'; so he did so much for me to keep my eyes on him. which wasnt hard cause my boyfriend is sexy as hell. when we went to go change out. the 1st guy. the one that likes me but i dont like him back. lets give him a nickname...'; nigguh'; well, ';nigguh'; gets mad cause ';the flirt'; was touchin me and flirting with me. so he PUNCHES AND KICKS ';the flirt'; my boyfriend comes out makin sure the coaches arent out there. and he walks back inside to get ';the flirt'; damn. his face was RED. i ding out ';nigguh'; beated him up and i start yelling at him. than the coach comes over and takes ';the flirt'; and ';nigguh'; to the deans. i was so pissed. cause all of this **** happened cause of me. I think the only reason why ';nigguh'; punched him was because i call him a whimp and soft and to sensitive and he tries wayyy to hard to prove to me that he isnt. but it is still true. and if ';nigguh'; thought this is how he would prove to me that he isnt soft? well.. he proved to me he isnt soft. he's just a damn *****... ';the flirt'; is gettin pressed with charges and he said this thing all happened cause of me. ';the flirt'; was talkin to my boyfriend and i how he was squirting out blood and stuff. i felt so bad.. I need advice QUICK!What to do when men fight over you?
stay in schoolWhat to do when men fight over you?
hahaha dont worry about it, your only in 6th grade.
your relationship wont last girl, im surprised you took all that time to write that big thing.
tl; dr.
Short version: ZOMG PRE-TEEN DRAMA.
Put it on youtube or something.
Also, ';What to do when men fight over you?'; is ridiculous. They're CHILDREN.
sorry, didnt have time to read that charles dickens novel you posted up there.
edit: i just read some of it... you sound like a self centred ***** and i sure as hell wouldnt go near you.
Pick the hotest one its that easy
Let them keep fighting until one of them die (just kidding).
damn thats crazy
just focus on your fam school and boyfriend dont worry about those other guys once u stop paying attention they'll leave u alone!
plus like everyone has said u have a long way to go your not even in high school yet so things will prolly get worse so focus on your life and the ones that bug and flirt or w/e leave them out cuz u have your boy!!
:]
plus hes already blaming you and its not even your fault he the one that got himself into that!!
Wow, for a 6th grader you sure have a lot of drama.
You have a boyfriend... you shouldn't be huggin' on other boys. Leave 'the flirt' alone, and pay attention to your boyfriend if you love him so much.
P.S. I really didn't even read your whole story, and I apologize for that. But really.... 6th grade? Honey, you have no clue what love is. You may think it is now, but one day you'll look back and laugh.
I dont even have to read this entire thing to know that you are waaaaaay in over your head!!!! What the hell are you thinking, you know what love is!!???? whatever!. what are you like 11 years old!! girl you need to focus on getting good grades, and not getting pregnant instead on focusing when a stupid little boy calls you ';damb sexy';. they probably cant even whipe theyr own butt at that age!
I stopped reading once I saw 6th grade. This sh!t is way too long for elementary school romance. And as an azn girl prepare to have tons of white guys fight over you. When you get older you'll understand why...
Honey, you're in the 6th grade and you don't know what the heck you want yet. I have changed soooooo much since the 6th grade - I am a completely different person, I like different things than I did at the time, and my thought process is completely different. You can't say you ';love'; someone until you are with that person for over a year at least. 6 months doesn't do a relationship justice.
And OMG!!!! learn to type cuz my eyes hurt just reading this!!!!!!!
You don't need advice, everything is going ok. Your ';flirt'; guy is getting pressed with charges and he is saying it's your fault, because he needs someone to blame...
anyways... yea. so my boyfriend really cares about me and doesnt even let other guys stare at me. he is protective but i like it. For now, i know 2 other guys that like me.... 1 of them i just can not stand. he is wayy to much of a gentleman and acts like a whimp. the other one is a really big flirt but can be really nice. I try to stay away as much as i can from the first guy but the ';flirt'; is one of my friends. at yesterday at P.E...my boyfriend was playing basketball. I think its called hot shot? its when you try to get as much points as you can in 1 min. he was in the lead with 32 points and was sitting in a chair for if ';your in the lead';. I was sitting there with ';the flirt'; and he asked me for a hug and i gave him one but he wouldnt let go of me.. i was cheering my boyfriend on and he was just staring at me and he said ';damn, i wish you were single';.... there was this one time he asked for a hug and he called my boyfriends name and he looked at me and i pulled him away. my boyfriend's best friend was sitting right behind us and telling my boyfriend that i was flirting with him. which i wasnt! he was flirting with me. so he got really pist. when we got out of the locker room he was heading for the stairs and i ran after him and he just said.'; Get Away'; and he wouldnt look at me. i could tell he was hurt. i ran to the top of the stairs before he did and he still didnt want to talk to me. he just wanted to get in class. Remember the first guy? the guy that likes me but i hate him? he was part of the reason why my boyfriend was mad at me cause he was also the one that told him. so i slapped him really hard and my boyfriend ran away.. we talked when we got home and he said he was mad cause '; the flirt'; was giving me hugs and i didnt even do anything about it. he ended up not being mad at me anymore. cause he can never get mad at me.
the next day at skool. whenever he saw '; the flirt'; he just stared at him and nodded his head. ';the flirt'; started to get scared. when we were at P.E. my boyfriend whooped his *** in the locker room but it didnt hurt as much. when i came out he was laughing. me and my friend Quincy were talking and ';the flirt'; said. *****. u dont wanna talk to her or her boyfriend is gonna whoop yo ***. '; the flirt'; got in trouble cause he was touchin me in the wrong places. My boyfriend didnt want me even talkin to ';the flirt'; so he did so much for me to keep my eyes on him. which wasnt hard cause my boyfriend is sexy as hell. when we went to go change out. the 1st guy. the one that likes me but i dont like him back. lets give him a nickname...'; nigguh'; well, ';nigguh'; gets mad cause ';the flirt'; was touchin me and flirting with me. so he PUNCHES AND KICKS ';the flirt'; my boyfriend comes out makin sure the coaches arent out there. and he walks back inside to get ';the flirt'; damn. his face was RED. i ding out ';nigguh'; beated him up and i start yelling at him. than the coach comes over and takes ';the flirt'; and ';nigguh'; to the deans. i was so pissed. cause all of this **** happened cause of me. I think the only reason why ';nigguh'; punched him was because i call him a whimp and soft and to sensitive and he tries wayyy to hard to prove to me that he isnt. but it is still true. and if ';nigguh'; thought this is how he would prove to me that he isnt soft? well.. he proved to me he isnt soft. he's just a damn *****... ';the flirt'; is gettin pressed with charges and he said this thing all happened cause of me. ';the flirt'; was talkin to my boyfriend and i how he was squirting out blood and stuff. i felt so bad.. I need advice QUICK!What to do when men fight over you?
stay in schoolWhat to do when men fight over you?
hahaha dont worry about it, your only in 6th grade.
your relationship wont last girl, im surprised you took all that time to write that big thing.
tl; dr.
Short version: ZOMG PRE-TEEN DRAMA.
Put it on youtube or something.
Also, ';What to do when men fight over you?'; is ridiculous. They're CHILDREN.
sorry, didnt have time to read that charles dickens novel you posted up there.
edit: i just read some of it... you sound like a self centred ***** and i sure as hell wouldnt go near you.
Pick the hotest one its that easy
Let them keep fighting until one of them die (just kidding).
damn thats crazy
just focus on your fam school and boyfriend dont worry about those other guys once u stop paying attention they'll leave u alone!
plus like everyone has said u have a long way to go your not even in high school yet so things will prolly get worse so focus on your life and the ones that bug and flirt or w/e leave them out cuz u have your boy!!
:]
plus hes already blaming you and its not even your fault he the one that got himself into that!!
Wow, for a 6th grader you sure have a lot of drama.
You have a boyfriend... you shouldn't be huggin' on other boys. Leave 'the flirt' alone, and pay attention to your boyfriend if you love him so much.
P.S. I really didn't even read your whole story, and I apologize for that. But really.... 6th grade? Honey, you have no clue what love is. You may think it is now, but one day you'll look back and laugh.
I dont even have to read this entire thing to know that you are waaaaaay in over your head!!!! What the hell are you thinking, you know what love is!!???? whatever!. what are you like 11 years old!! girl you need to focus on getting good grades, and not getting pregnant instead on focusing when a stupid little boy calls you ';damb sexy';. they probably cant even whipe theyr own butt at that age!
I stopped reading once I saw 6th grade. This sh!t is way too long for elementary school romance. And as an azn girl prepare to have tons of white guys fight over you. When you get older you'll understand why...
Honey, you're in the 6th grade and you don't know what the heck you want yet. I have changed soooooo much since the 6th grade - I am a completely different person, I like different things than I did at the time, and my thought process is completely different. You can't say you ';love'; someone until you are with that person for over a year at least. 6 months doesn't do a relationship justice.
And OMG!!!! learn to type cuz my eyes hurt just reading this!!!!!!!
You don't need advice, everything is going ok. Your ';flirt'; guy is getting pressed with charges and he is saying it's your fault, because he needs someone to blame...
How do I date a woman in a relationship (either now or later)?
I want to ';go on a few dates'; with a woman I met tonight. She is in a relationship. I don't know how serious/how long. I want to let her know I would like to go on a date with her while still respecting that she is in a relationship. I don't know how to do this. I don't want to wait very long to date her.
I have felt that I want to be single my whole life (because I do not want to spend the time in a relationship). I am very picky with compatibility...
I can tell a person through their eyes and behavior.
Tonight I met a woman (my age is 25, she's probably 22 or so). There was little verbal communication. I was able to watch her nonverbal communication while she played on stage in a band (one of my friends invited me to come watch - a friend I met once before, and kept in touch with). I was watching everyones' nonverbal communication, and kind of getting a sense of what they are like.
The band is sort of an emo band, but this woman played her parts seriously. The lead singers' lyrics are very strange, but pretty funny at times. Her boyfriend plays the bass guitar.
From what I picked up her boyfriend is pretty happy go lucky. I don't think he has much drive though.
The one communication we had was when I left (well, our eyes did meet a few times while she was on stage, but I didn't stare because I knew she was in a relationship). The real communication happened when I said goodbye to everyone. As I was leaving I told her (very honestly) that I loved the french horn (one of the instruments she played, which sounded beautiful).
When I said this, her eyes lit up and she said, ';Really?'; It shocked me because it is the kind of look that is sincere. I replied automatically ';yes.';
I started to walk away, came back and said that my cousin teaches french horn, and that I really did enjoy her playing. We made that same eye contact.
This eye contact is something I have never seen... It was amazing.
I may be dreaming, or whatever... but life is short. So my question being, I would like to contact her and ask her to go on a date with me. I need to let her know that I realize she's in a relationship, but I want to go on a few dates with her.
I am not ready to be in a relationship, but this kind of eye contact just blew me away. It was sweet, sincere, honest... very hard to find.
Your thoughts?How do I date a woman in a relationship (either now or later)?
From past experience...recipe for disaster
First off, you stated your not ready for a relationship, so why confuse her and possibly break up her already existing relationship, which I may add is with a group member in her band???
Secondly, hellooo, the chick is in a relationship. Lets say you fall for her then what?? What if she refuses to leave her present boyfriend?
My suggestion......keep the nice moment to yourself, indulge in it as a beautiful fantasy and move on to better and more promising thingsHow do I date a woman in a relationship (either now or later)?
first, publish this novel
you dont go out with a woman who already in a relationship, you go out with a woman who are single. duh. theres billion of single chicks dude you just gotta keep looking and you need to stop being so damn picky maybe you wouldst feel so alone. now if you try to get with this lady theres a possible chance you could be burned and what goes around comes around. so just remember that. plus your not ready to be in a relationship so what would be the point in asking her out? have you actually thought about this or what? hello anyone home?spyware removal losing hair
I have felt that I want to be single my whole life (because I do not want to spend the time in a relationship). I am very picky with compatibility...
I can tell a person through their eyes and behavior.
Tonight I met a woman (my age is 25, she's probably 22 or so). There was little verbal communication. I was able to watch her nonverbal communication while she played on stage in a band (one of my friends invited me to come watch - a friend I met once before, and kept in touch with). I was watching everyones' nonverbal communication, and kind of getting a sense of what they are like.
The band is sort of an emo band, but this woman played her parts seriously. The lead singers' lyrics are very strange, but pretty funny at times. Her boyfriend plays the bass guitar.
From what I picked up her boyfriend is pretty happy go lucky. I don't think he has much drive though.
The one communication we had was when I left (well, our eyes did meet a few times while she was on stage, but I didn't stare because I knew she was in a relationship). The real communication happened when I said goodbye to everyone. As I was leaving I told her (very honestly) that I loved the french horn (one of the instruments she played, which sounded beautiful).
When I said this, her eyes lit up and she said, ';Really?'; It shocked me because it is the kind of look that is sincere. I replied automatically ';yes.';
I started to walk away, came back and said that my cousin teaches french horn, and that I really did enjoy her playing. We made that same eye contact.
This eye contact is something I have never seen... It was amazing.
I may be dreaming, or whatever... but life is short. So my question being, I would like to contact her and ask her to go on a date with me. I need to let her know that I realize she's in a relationship, but I want to go on a few dates with her.
I am not ready to be in a relationship, but this kind of eye contact just blew me away. It was sweet, sincere, honest... very hard to find.
Your thoughts?How do I date a woman in a relationship (either now or later)?
From past experience...recipe for disaster
First off, you stated your not ready for a relationship, so why confuse her and possibly break up her already existing relationship, which I may add is with a group member in her band???
Secondly, hellooo, the chick is in a relationship. Lets say you fall for her then what?? What if she refuses to leave her present boyfriend?
My suggestion......keep the nice moment to yourself, indulge in it as a beautiful fantasy and move on to better and more promising thingsHow do I date a woman in a relationship (either now or later)?
first, publish this novel
you dont go out with a woman who already in a relationship, you go out with a woman who are single. duh. theres billion of single chicks dude you just gotta keep looking and you need to stop being so damn picky maybe you wouldst feel so alone. now if you try to get with this lady theres a possible chance you could be burned and what goes around comes around. so just remember that. plus your not ready to be in a relationship so what would be the point in asking her out? have you actually thought about this or what? hello anyone home?
I'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
we been going out for a 1 year and 2 months...... as we say that were practically married to one another. our love was like destiny and.. its seems like faith is the one that brought us to one other.
we start going out when i was 16 years old... he was still 25 then...things was not planed as i call it AN Accident!!.. ( in a good way)... we met cause of his father. He's father married my dads cousin. things didn't go right between him and his father lots of drama was involved. one night the was a big fight went on between him and his father at my dads friends party and that night my parents offered him our home for him to lived in. 1st few months we say hi and bye that's it... we talk but a short conversation only.. after he got back from California... 1 month after me and him spend more time with each other.... he gets off work the same time i gets off school.. we eat with each other make fun of one another... some things.. that we don't normally do... some times I'll just catch my self staring at him......i mean don't get me wrong i know that I'm attractive and i can go find guys my age but for some reason no matter what i do it faith just keep leading me to him. and this all happen in a month .. we go eat out..he's treat my treat.. don't matter.. both of us pitch in.... we both fell in love at 1st we were both scared and insecure about our age... because im the type of gurl that will flirt around i mean.. im not a hoe or n e thing but i just like to hang out with guys and play around with them a couple of time that i make in insecure to the point that he want to just give up about us..... . but for some reason.. and for the very 1st time... i hold him.. tight and say ';baby don't go...'; after.. things wur good between us.. our relationship was on DOWN LOW so my parents wont find out..not just my parents anyone else as well.. my brother will always have friday and.. Saturday night party..not abig party but a party that everyone just kicked it... drink smoke,, talk .. gamble... even then.. people start noticing us... they always say that there was a chemistry between us....... our everyone start to notice BUT my parents... but our relationship was pretty much out in public. my parents start noticing something.. soo he moved out...but yet they still didnt have any clue
thats how everything begins... now that.. our love was stronger that ever.... i mean we will have doubts here in there.. but... we get past that... ..but after that everything was good between us.. my parents found out..... my mom caught him in my room one morning... ..things was .. not a pretty good site .. everyone was just shock and didnt then there was a decisions that was made that he cant bother until i get done with schoool.. we both agree but that dosent mean we will get out of my life .. my mother wanted him to despair she forbidden everything talking to him seeing him... even at my JOB... it huts soo much..... but.. yet.. we both still see each other... he'll come to my work... during my brake... its hard... but yet.. we get thought that .... my mother.. trid to check up on my at my job.. she saw her car there.. then.. thas when everything start going out of control.. life sucks at that point of time..., i ran away... i lived with my cuzins for a little bit... cuzz... he didnt want to make everything worst.. when i tried to settle down.. my mom tried to put my boyfriend in jail... she wanted him behind bars.. ';is it really a crime to fall in love with some';.. but she didnt succeed.. i was at my cuzins for a good month... until my father... talked to me.. once again.. and.. tried to convinced me to come home but yet.. i had... an agreement.. that once june 2009 comes.. im moving out......and im going to stay with my boyfriend for good..... but even my dad didnt want me to.. he said yess just for me to come home.......... after wards there was arguments here and there but... everything was better.............. i will go see him... every week end and.. i spend time with him when ever i can....... but that holiday past.. everything rough again.... economy was ******* up... soo... poeple wur losing jobs here and there.. at 1st the company cut of my boyfriends hours.. soo.. i help him.. to settle with everything.,.,. like i will go shop food .. do what ever i can to help.. i supported him.... for at least a little bit.. even he had a job...it was not paying him.. enough for rent and food....he thought that.. maybee its better for him to move back to California with his family mom and sister... he left the beginning of feb. b4 3 weeks b4 our one year anniversary .... didnt get to see him for two months.. everynight will talk to each other.... have arguments here and there but hay... thats how LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP works.... but spring brake... i went to go visit him and his family they welcome me... like one part of there family... things was great.... during the time that i was there.,... we both talked about extending ouI'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
You can move in with whoever you want at 18. I moved in with my ex husband when I was 16, he was 26. The relationship lasted 24 years. During that time we married twice (each other). Once when I was 21 %26amp; the second time when I was 28. We had 2 children together, one when I was 27 %26amp; the other when I was 35. We did not separate because of age, age was never the problem. My daughter is 13 with someone 16. People yell at me all the time like I'm a bad parent because of it. She gets A's %26amp; B's, is a cheerleader.He really does care about her, I'm not saying they will be together forever, I don't know. What I do know is that people of all ages have feeling's. And that he really does care about her %26amp; is not using her.I'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
not in Missouri, I'm not sure it might vary state to state. Look up the legal age in your state
No laws prohibit you from moving in with anybody after your 18.
wow that is alot to read!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we start going out when i was 16 years old... he was still 25 then...things was not planed as i call it AN Accident!!.. ( in a good way)... we met cause of his father. He's father married my dads cousin. things didn't go right between him and his father lots of drama was involved. one night the was a big fight went on between him and his father at my dads friends party and that night my parents offered him our home for him to lived in. 1st few months we say hi and bye that's it... we talk but a short conversation only.. after he got back from California... 1 month after me and him spend more time with each other.... he gets off work the same time i gets off school.. we eat with each other make fun of one another... some things.. that we don't normally do... some times I'll just catch my self staring at him......i mean don't get me wrong i know that I'm attractive and i can go find guys my age but for some reason no matter what i do it faith just keep leading me to him. and this all happen in a month .. we go eat out..he's treat my treat.. don't matter.. both of us pitch in.... we both fell in love at 1st we were both scared and insecure about our age... because im the type of gurl that will flirt around i mean.. im not a hoe or n e thing but i just like to hang out with guys and play around with them a couple of time that i make in insecure to the point that he want to just give up about us..... . but for some reason.. and for the very 1st time... i hold him.. tight and say ';baby don't go...'; after.. things wur good between us.. our relationship was on DOWN LOW so my parents wont find out..not just my parents anyone else as well.. my brother will always have friday and.. Saturday night party..not abig party but a party that everyone just kicked it... drink smoke,, talk .. gamble... even then.. people start noticing us... they always say that there was a chemistry between us....... our everyone start to notice BUT my parents... but our relationship was pretty much out in public. my parents start noticing something.. soo he moved out...but yet they still didnt have any clue
thats how everything begins... now that.. our love was stronger that ever.... i mean we will have doubts here in there.. but... we get past that... ..but after that everything was good between us.. my parents found out..... my mom caught him in my room one morning... ..things was .. not a pretty good site .. everyone was just shock and didnt then there was a decisions that was made that he cant bother until i get done with schoool.. we both agree but that dosent mean we will get out of my life .. my mother wanted him to despair she forbidden everything talking to him seeing him... even at my JOB... it huts soo much..... but.. yet.. we both still see each other... he'll come to my work... during my brake... its hard... but yet.. we get thought that .... my mother.. trid to check up on my at my job.. she saw her car there.. then.. thas when everything start going out of control.. life sucks at that point of time..., i ran away... i lived with my cuzins for a little bit... cuzz... he didnt want to make everything worst.. when i tried to settle down.. my mom tried to put my boyfriend in jail... she wanted him behind bars.. ';is it really a crime to fall in love with some';.. but she didnt succeed.. i was at my cuzins for a good month... until my father... talked to me.. once again.. and.. tried to convinced me to come home but yet.. i had... an agreement.. that once june 2009 comes.. im moving out......and im going to stay with my boyfriend for good..... but even my dad didnt want me to.. he said yess just for me to come home.......... after wards there was arguments here and there but... everything was better.............. i will go see him... every week end and.. i spend time with him when ever i can....... but that holiday past.. everything rough again.... economy was ******* up... soo... poeple wur losing jobs here and there.. at 1st the company cut of my boyfriends hours.. soo.. i help him.. to settle with everything.,.,. like i will go shop food .. do what ever i can to help.. i supported him.... for at least a little bit.. even he had a job...it was not paying him.. enough for rent and food....he thought that.. maybee its better for him to move back to California with his family mom and sister... he left the beginning of feb. b4 3 weeks b4 our one year anniversary .... didnt get to see him for two months.. everynight will talk to each other.... have arguments here and there but hay... thats how LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP works.... but spring brake... i went to go visit him and his family they welcome me... like one part of there family... things was great.... during the time that i was there.,... we both talked about extending ouI'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
You can move in with whoever you want at 18. I moved in with my ex husband when I was 16, he was 26. The relationship lasted 24 years. During that time we married twice (each other). Once when I was 21 %26amp; the second time when I was 28. We had 2 children together, one when I was 27 %26amp; the other when I was 35. We did not separate because of age, age was never the problem. My daughter is 13 with someone 16. People yell at me all the time like I'm a bad parent because of it. She gets A's %26amp; B's, is a cheerleader.He really does care about her, I'm not saying they will be together forever, I don't know. What I do know is that people of all ages have feeling's. And that he really does care about her %26amp; is not using her.I'm 17 years old and I'm going to turn 18th on November 08 2009 is it possible for me to move in with your 27?
not in Missouri, I'm not sure it might vary state to state. Look up the legal age in your state
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wow that is alot to read!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I need to get over him, right? This is long, but it would mean a lot if you gave some of your time to help.?
okkkk. So, here's the thing. I talked to this guy for a while. He was totally into me. Then, something happened. One day, I was going to town and told him I was cause he had mentioned wanting to go. So sure enough, he comes to town too. But we never did get to see each other. We were at different places and had a bunch of stuff we had to do. Plus, I had a friend with me. Anyway, I was leaving town and I got a text from him. He had been being really short with responses and his spelling was messing up cause he phone is a POS. So my friend was texting him while I was driving and was asking him what he meant over and over again when he spelt something wrong. He didn't seem mad, but I dunno. Anyway, the text message I got when I was leaving was said that he needed to quit texting me %26amp; that he was irritated, but not with me. With his phone. So I was already amazed that he was into me in the first place, so I was like ';I knew it was too good to be true!'; Anyway, my friend said he was being a jerk so I text him and told him sorry for bothering him and bye. He text back and said it wasn't me. It was just hard to text when 5 diff people were texting him simultaneously. I was like ok. ttyl. So then he said it was okay and that he would continue texting me. So he kept texting me. For a while. Then he quit. We had been texting for over 24 hours by then. So I didn't talk to him for a few days. My friend invited him to the movies with a big group. That day, I had texted him hey. He was at work, so he didn't get it til late. When he did, he text me and asked if he would see me at the movies the following night. We talked for a bit, then one of us quit texting. Don't remember which. Probably him. Anyway, when we went to the movies, I did not even talk to him! I was gonna after the movie since I didn't before, but my friend was tired and wanted to get home. So i texted him instead. We talked for a while and then I told him I had texted him mainly to apoligize. He never text back...so the next night I text him and told him I never did tell him why I was sorry, and so I apoligized for the movie thing and told him even though I didn't invite him, I felt really bad no one talked to him. He was totally cool about it. We text for a bit but then I quit texting him cause I didn't know what to say. Later, I talked to him on myspace. At least a week later. He said his phone was really messed up. So he couldn't text. We talked for a while really well and he said he was okay without a phone cause it kept him out of trouble. He put smileys. I asked how it did that. %26amp; he got off. Wtc? Anywayyy, then a couple weeks later I found out his phone was fixed and texted him. We talked for a bit. Then he quit texting me. A couple days later, we talked and I asked him when the fair was, and he said he had no idea. I told him I had just found out but thanks. And he said no problem. Then I quit texting him. So now, about 2 or 3 weeks later, I asked him what he got on his AP Scores. I got no answers. I got his good friend who is my best friend to text him. He text her back. So yeah.
Oh yeah, he is going to college in a little over 2 weeks, but only 2 hours away. %26amp; we both have licenses. and he has a lot of little siblings back here that he cares about a lot. So he will prob be back.
Basically, I wanna know. What exactly did I do wrong? What was going thru his head? Is there any hopes of fixing it, or should I just move on? If there is hope, how can I go about getting him back?
I just really really like him. I've been praying for a guy like him. I wanted him to be a good christian boy who is nice. Preferably i wanted him to be hot, funny, have a good personality, be smart, and play a musical instrument (he plays guitar)
So yeah, thats exactly what I got. And so much more added bonuses. So I thought God might throw me a bone and let it work out. I've never had a boyfriend cause I always look for a great guy and I don't settle for less. Its not that guys don't like me, cause they do. I just say no.I need to get over him, right? This is long, but it would mean a lot if you gave some of your time to help.?
you have to be crazy if you think anyone is gonna read that. try to shorten it :) good luck tho. :)I need to get over him, right? This is long, but it would mean a lot if you gave some of your time to help.?
People tend to lose interest fast when everything is through electronics. The only time it seems you talk to him is just texts. Call him, not text and start talking. Go out on a date that is just you and him, don't have any friends around dragging you out to the point you can't even talk to him. He was probably hurt by that even though he said it was cool.
i know what you mean about the perfect guy, but i dont know about this one, he seems kind of like a player. i say you get over him or just flirt with his friends and do exactly what he did to you, if that helps
You were annoying him by texting him and having your friends text him and he is probably under the impression that your being immature and being obsessive, which you kind of are. I used to do this when I was... 11. Anyway, I'd definitely try to find a different guy because this guy doesn't like you. Actually, he might even feel bad for you. Who needs him?
Haha long story, but lemme try to help.
Okay so definately the guys is being a jerk, I mean if he really did like you, then he would talk to you, even at the movies. And you shouldve talked to him at the movies and not be shy, that wouldve been sorta good so you can get to know him better than in text. and it's true what other people wrote, you guys shouldve talked on the phone and gone on dates, that maybe wouldve keeped him interested. And don't always text him cause he might get annoyed. Let him text you. And I think you need to get over him, cause he's not the only guy your gonna find, and sometimes you have to let the other guys who like you a chance, so you Wont miss out. And if he's gonna go to college soon, then chances are that he's Going to meet girls there, so I don't think you should get so cought up into him. If you really like him, let him go and see if he comes back, if he doesn't then he's not worth it.
Oh yeah, he is going to college in a little over 2 weeks, but only 2 hours away. %26amp; we both have licenses. and he has a lot of little siblings back here that he cares about a lot. So he will prob be back.
Basically, I wanna know. What exactly did I do wrong? What was going thru his head? Is there any hopes of fixing it, or should I just move on? If there is hope, how can I go about getting him back?
I just really really like him. I've been praying for a guy like him. I wanted him to be a good christian boy who is nice. Preferably i wanted him to be hot, funny, have a good personality, be smart, and play a musical instrument (he plays guitar)
So yeah, thats exactly what I got. And so much more added bonuses. So I thought God might throw me a bone and let it work out. I've never had a boyfriend cause I always look for a great guy and I don't settle for less. Its not that guys don't like me, cause they do. I just say no.I need to get over him, right? This is long, but it would mean a lot if you gave some of your time to help.?
you have to be crazy if you think anyone is gonna read that. try to shorten it :) good luck tho. :)I need to get over him, right? This is long, but it would mean a lot if you gave some of your time to help.?
People tend to lose interest fast when everything is through electronics. The only time it seems you talk to him is just texts. Call him, not text and start talking. Go out on a date that is just you and him, don't have any friends around dragging you out to the point you can't even talk to him. He was probably hurt by that even though he said it was cool.
i know what you mean about the perfect guy, but i dont know about this one, he seems kind of like a player. i say you get over him or just flirt with his friends and do exactly what he did to you, if that helps
You were annoying him by texting him and having your friends text him and he is probably under the impression that your being immature and being obsessive, which you kind of are. I used to do this when I was... 11. Anyway, I'd definitely try to find a different guy because this guy doesn't like you. Actually, he might even feel bad for you. Who needs him?
Haha long story, but lemme try to help.
Okay so definately the guys is being a jerk, I mean if he really did like you, then he would talk to you, even at the movies. And you shouldve talked to him at the movies and not be shy, that wouldve been sorta good so you can get to know him better than in text. and it's true what other people wrote, you guys shouldve talked on the phone and gone on dates, that maybe wouldve keeped him interested. And don't always text him cause he might get annoyed. Let him text you. And I think you need to get over him, cause he's not the only guy your gonna find, and sometimes you have to let the other guys who like you a chance, so you Wont miss out. And if he's gonna go to college soon, then chances are that he's Going to meet girls there, so I don't think you should get so cought up into him. If you really like him, let him go and see if he comes back, if he doesn't then he's not worth it.
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