Boyfriend leaving for college?

me (11:40:43 PM): this college stuff is really depressing


him (11:41:18 PM): graduation is still like 2 months away


him (11:41:32 PM): then summmmmmmer


me (11:41:48 PM): i don't even know if this is worth it if we're gonna have to break up in like 3 months anyway


him (11:42:52 PM): i still really care about you


him (11:43:08 PM): and like i dont want us to fall out or anything


me (11:43:23 PM): what do you mean


him (11:43:56 PM): likeee regardless of our relationship status we should still chill and just enjoy what we got


me (11:45:03 PM): i guess so, as friends at least.. i don't really do the whole friends with benefits **** or anything


him (11:46:18 PM): the last thing i want is for us to break up really but i feel like crap cause im gonna be grounded and i know youre gonna be working and all


me (11:46:37 PM): and we're going to break up in 3 months anyway.


him (11:47:42 PM): yeah i think were on the same page hereeee its sucks but theres nothing we can really do :?


him (11:47:47 PM): :/


him (11:48:13 PM): we should stick it out though


me (11:48:19 PM): ..


him (11:48:28 PM): you honestly make me so happy though and i dont want it to end sooner than neccesary


him (11:48:39 PM): for a bit at least?


him (11:48:49 PM): well


him (11:48:52 PM): im gonna be grounded


me (11:48:52 PM): i don't know if i want a relationship with a time limit it ******* sucks


timeismonkey1337 (11:49:53 PM): its completely out of our hands really


me (11:51:00 PM): i just didn't realize we'd have to break up when you went to college, i guess logically i understand but i wouldn't have had sex with you if i knew this.. i mean i get it but jeez it really sucks


him (11:51:36 PM): im more than likely moving like 5+ hours away


me (11:51:59 PM): i guess i just didn't realize or think about it


him (11:52:09 PM): it might be better this way.. we'll still be on good terms and all


me (11:52:16 PM): you told me at first you'd be probably going close


him (11:52:29 PM): thats what i was told at the time


me (11:52:44 PM): ughhhh.. i really do like you and care about you and wouldn't want to just end it especially over aim


him (11:52:53 PM): yeah i knowwwwwwww


me (11:53:04 PM): it just hurts... like a lot


him (11:53:18 PM): i wasnt plannin on even havin this conversatin today and i hate it


him (11:53:19 PM): but


him (11:53:25 PM): we should hang out still


me (11:53:37 PM): wait are we broken up? whoa slow down


him (11:53:47 PM): noooo lol


him (11:54:14 PM): but like whatever happens i still wanna be ur friend and all


me (11:54:34 PM): that will take a while though, i'm sure you understand?


me (11:54:47 PM): there's gotta be some sort of waiting period.. or it makes it 4000x harder


him (11:55:01 PM): a waiting period?


me (11:55:17 PM): before you even taaaalk to the person you broke up with really


him (11:55:36 PM): this is so different. i dont want any hard feelings at all


me (11:55:59 PM): no promises there but it'll all work out i'm sure..


me (11:56:07 PM): we'll eventually be friends and all


him (11:56:33 PM): that scares me i just feel like you know how people say oh but we should still be friends blah blah then it doest happen


me (11:56:50 PM): yea. i know, i've lived it, truuust me


me (11:57:08 PM): but you can't go from really really liking and caring about someone that way to friends really quickly


him (11:57:25 PM): ok well do what you have to do


me (11:57:37 PM): especially someone who you lost your virginity to, sorry i don't wanna play that ';card'; but that's a big deal for me... but... as of now we're still together?


him (11:58:00 PM): yeeeeeeeeeeessss


me (11:58:04 PM): ok


him (11:58:21 PM): and like i know thats a huge thing and thats why we need to always be cool


me (11:58:31 PM): i just feel like, the closer we get, the more it'll hurt cause it's inevitable and that's what sucks the most. i mean pretty much all relationships are inevitable


me (11:59:03 PM): buuut.. idk there's like a set time limit on ours, it's weird


him (11:59:15 PM): i dont want you to regret it or anythig


me (11:59:19 PM): :-\


him (11:59:46 PM): but if we waited till like when i was absolutely leaving that would be SOOOOO MUCH HARDER


him (11:59:58 PM): and i dont want any of us to go through that


me (12:01:00 AM): mhm


him (12:01:46 AM): i honestly didnt mean to have this conversation on aim we need to talk it over still sometime


me (12:02:11 AM): ehhm yeah probably should


me (12:02:28 AM): won't be easy lol..


him (12:02:44 AM): tell me about it.. im sick to my stomach already


me (12:03:05 AM): i'm about to throw up an organ


him (12:03:35 AM): just know that i care about you


him (12:03:36 AM): so much


me (12:04:05 AM): i know, and i really care about you too :-\ this just sucks


him (12:04:48 AM): its life and like..... im so glad we got to know eachother


him (1Boyfriend leaving for college?
To answer your question: Yes, you can still get pregnant even though you two did it standing up.Boyfriend leaving for college?
Oh.....that's sad....I wasn't able to figure out what your question is....
this is really sad because this situation is very similar to where my boyfriend and I are right now... some of the things you guys said are things i've thought about before practically word for word... the only differences are were both going to college and we'll only be an hour away so we might stay together, i'm not sure what he wants, we haven't talk about it much yet, it's just too sad :/





I really hope everything works out for you two, it sounds like you have a strong relationship and you care about each other a lot and i wish you good luck. My advice would be not to worry about it too much, try to enjoy your time with him while you have it now. Even if you do break up in a few months, you'll always have the memories and you should enjoy your time together for now.





Don't dwell on this, try to live in the moment and enjoy what you have. I hope everything ends up good for you two.
I don't know, but i realllllly need to know the answer to this. i just broke up with a girlfriend and it was this exact situation except for the college thing, and now my current girlfriend is going to college, but it hasn't gone that far. I hope you get some good answers
don't you think its a bit too long?


i couldn't even reach half of it.
sad but your question is not clear