How to get over your first love that hurt you?

ok soo long story short, im 18 and she is 17...we broke up in march, like the 14th cuz we didnt wanna be tied down and we wanted to go out and have fun and do our own thing...we were together for like 10 months...but anyways, her best guy friend whos in the military came home in february and they hung like all the time and i wus cool wit it..but anyways march 15th after the day we broke up i asked her on several occasions if theres anything goin on her with her best friend cuz i feel like there more then friends, and she kept saying no and that there just best friends..now i had this feeling cuz she had my phone cuz she broke hers and she wus texting her best friend sayin like hey baby and just **** like that and stuff you would hear couples would say..and i asked her about the texts and she said she set me up and told him to go along with everything she said..now regardless of this being true or not, you dont play games and mess with my emotions like that..but anyways she deleted me off her myspace like a month ago and i find out a few days later her and her best friend r now dating since february!!!...my friend showed me her myspace page and its all about her boyfriend..and still till this day she keeps saying there not dating but yet they have pics of them kissing and stuff...soo the only time i have any contact with her is at work on the weekends :( :(..im trying really hard to forget about her and move on but seeing her 2 days a week isnt helping...idk what to do??...i feel like she hurt me wayyy more after we broke up, and that our reason to end it was just her way out of our relationship cuz the night we broke up she already had a man for an entire month..and last week she wanted to make peace with me but i told her i couldnt cuz not only did she lie to me but she cheated/played me when i wus with her, and i told her i couldnt make peace and be friends with someone who can do that...im sorry i wrote soo much, but if anybody read all this, thanks soo much! u made my day :) :)How to get over your first love that hurt you?
dude, i kinda had something like that but here's the problem. you still kept talking to her after she broke up with you. the girl i was dating for a long while ';broke up'; with me in valentines day..$hit was messed up but i got over her once i started hanging out with my friends and talking to girls, i know this kind of thing brings you wayyy down but it shouldn't your 18 man, go and live your life once you start getting older you'll regret what you didn't do when you were young which is why i recommend you to stop talking to her, if wanna make peace go ahead but it would be better if you guys stop talking %26amp; like i said go and live your life with no regret. oh the thing that helped me a lot to forget about her was music.How to get over your first love that hurt you?
Sounds like she's not really worth it. She played you bad, he knew it, let them be, I'm sure they'll cause there own pains. As for you, this summer is down time it's healing time. it will be tough the first love hurts so bad I know, especially with deception. But you learn and grow heal up and take the value of strong honesty and communication with you so when you love again you can weave that into the footwork of the new relationship. as for her, forgive her, but say you can't be friends, you can be cool with her, this will make you feel better, but you can't be friends after all that.
you may still got feelings for her but it seem like she don't want to be with you right now even if she do go with someone you can have feelings for her but live your life date other people until she come to you and say i want to be with you and only you just live your life
I am sorry that this happened to you. It seems she is not telling you about her new relationship because she doesn't want to hurt you or even feel like she did you wrong. In time you will move on but in your heart you will always have a place for her. Let her know just to get it all out and then you can go on in your life. Its kinda of hard to get a new job with the world GSOg the way it is so just try your best to get over her.