Ladies, please help a shy guy!?

Okay, this girl in my class that I really used to like added me on Facebook and MSN, and I only know her because we're both in the same 1st year course.





We started talking on MSN, and I really had a big crush on her because she's soo nice, and she's so gorgeous!





So anyways, I found out her boyfriend broke up with her like 3 months ago, and all she talks about is how she misses him.





I can't stand it, and now she's like tryna mess with me... She's trying to play hard to get, but it seems she still has feelings for her ex. She commented on my Facebook wall asking about how my winter break has been, and I haven't commented back-- and I don't plan to. Is that a good idea? Should I keep it going, or just let it go? I hate playing games, and that's exactly what she's doing.





Anyways, please help! I should add that I'm VERY shy, so that doesn't help at all... and every time I try forgetting about her, it just makes me think of her more... like anytime I'm with her, I just feel so good, but I don't know what to do now because she's ignoring me one moment, and talking to me the next...





:-( Please help, your answer doesn't have to be long or anything, just anything will do!Ladies, please help a shy guy!?
Don't play games, girls hate that. Reply to her comment and start talking casually then slip it into the conversation. That's what I did and I'm now very happy with my current boyfriend (:





Good luck to you!Ladies, please help a shy guy!?
Does she know you like her? If not, then maybe she's not playing games. You should keep talking to her, so when she's ready to date other guys, you'll be at the top of her list. Besides, if she's as nice as you say she is, why would she want to mess with you.





However, if you find out that she is playing games, don't waste your time with her. She's not worth it.
Send her and email or a message letting her know how you feel...even if you're shy you wont have anything to lose if you write to her on the computer. Right? =) Let her know how much you like her and would like to get to know her more but you'd like it to be about just you two...Tell her clearly see what she has to say. Good Luck!! =)
well by not answering her facebook comment, you are playing games too. if if she is playing hard to get and complaining to u about missing her ex, it doesnt seem like shes that nice. just ask her what the deal is and why she keeps changing her mind about talking to u.
if i were here, i would love for you to comment back. if u didnt comment it would seem like u didnt care or anything any more. it doesnt have to be the most intricate and complicated comment in the world, just something simple and friendly^^
hmm..thats a hard one.....well i think that you should give her some time to get over it and you can go for it dude! lol and if u r like really sure that she is just messing with u, forget about her and move one! good luck :D
I'm a girl and i have had shy boyfriends b4. Tell her how you feel ask her if she still has feelings for him. Don't do it in a message you won't get the right answer. Man up and go for it. Girls love daring guys.
you need to set her straight and say i'm not into playing games like you said and you should get up the courage to tell her you like her that way she'll know you don't want any games
It may have to do with you being shy.Instant message her and see how she's doing or better yet ask her the next time you see her.
If shes messing with you, then she's not as nice as you seem to think. If you still think she's worth going for then just be yourself and see if your personalities click.
Im not a lady but... It look that she's still in love w/him so, ask her if she loves him, if her answer is yes, let it go, if not. TELL HER about your feelings


G'Luck
Juts comment back, keep it going! From what u said it doesn't sound like she's playing games, she might be shy, too!
Dood, you really have to man up.
she sounds like an angel go for her!
she is stupid and using you!


find a better girl and forget her
Okay, I'm going to answer this question with personal prefrance.





I think ignoring it all together isn't so smart. She is oviously bleeding pain, and if you like her as much I think you do, you should do yourself a favor. Be her shoulder to cry on. Tell her your you will be there for her. And even if it hurts to listen about it, it will show her you care about her and it will help her get over it much faster. She will come to when/if she's ready. Give it time. That will show her your willing to take the time to help her because she worth it.





Hope I helped!


=.] Jolie
usually people are not over there X until they stop talking about them.


golden rule is not to talk about your x infront of your new mate. a little is healthy but I dont think in the beginning.


I would say she is still hurting over it. It's risky however some people get over their X faster when they start seeing someone else. also risky b/c you could get hurt.


get up the courage and ask her out before someone else does just take it slow. if she brings him up just change the subject politely (without actually saying lets change the subject) If it continues let her go, If it stops you're IN.


just go into it w/ courage and a strong knowledge of what you want and will NOT tolerate.
ait..this wat u need to do...be honest with her..tell her how u really feel abt her..u gotta man up..am shy too but in situations like this u gotta just be confident...if she says she really likes you then u dnt gotta worry abt the ex he's the past u the future hopefully..but if she doesn't say anythin aftr u tld her how u feel..give her one week..if she keeps playing games..she ain't worth u..that's when you peace out...n go back and write on her wall..if u dnt like games y should u be playing em..good luck..
i used to be very shy with girls in high school..just like you...its easy man, dont ingore her like all the old school cheesy stuff. just simply talk to her, when she says something to you online or at school or whatever.





and tell her how you feel,girls like a guy who can go up to her and talk about real things.





she will forget about her ex real fast if you prove to her you like her and your the man she needs. the first time i tried this..when i was shy...it worked! now its very easy for me to talk to girls..even though i dont because i have been with a girl for 3 years now.





its easy, just be confident in who you are, know what you want, and surely you will have it.
ok if she is playin games with u and u dont like it then tell her the truth and how u feel she will respect you for that and think u r a real man not some fake man who is afraid to share his feeling that is what a girl is really lookin for some1 to be a real man and not fake. tell her is she misses her ex to go bac with him instead of being all mopey about it and tryin to hide it