Ok, anyone who is in a serious relationship can answer this question.?

ive been with my boyfriend for quite a while. i really love him, and i do anything for him.





i know that he would do anything for me too.... but i just want to do things differently... to make him appreciate me more.... make him want to see me more, make him love me more.





playing hard to get with my boyfriend? might sound silly yes, but i just want that spark going if you know what i mean... when he leaves, i always feel that im not fully satisfied with his actions. how he cuddles me etc...





thought of a few ideas, but i really need more!. need some help from you guys.





1. when we're laying beside each other, i always look at him... try to cuddle etc. well i do what every girl does, but i realised that sometimes guys get annoyed by this, so i thought of being more relaxed and do it occasionally.





2. thought of being a little bit sexy with him when he least expects it...





3. your turn!!





i need something exciting in the relationship, make him appreciate me more. and make him realise that what we have is really special





thanks in advance :)Ok, anyone who is in a serious relationship can answer this question.?
These are good ideas, but really I think that you should talk to him and tell him what you feel. You are in a long term relationship and as such the channels of communication should be open.Ok, anyone who is in a serious relationship can answer this question.?
Well cook him something to eat or do the dishes. Idk if you can cook or not but just make him something to eat. Guys loove love love food and they love for girls to cook for them. im sure it will make him appreciate you more. Or why not cook something together? Like cookies or idk just think of something.
my girlfriend will surprise me with notes and little presents she buys or makes me. i dont care about material things, but it always makes me smile when she puts time into things. and i do it for her too. she also can be really spontaneous, so i guess that your idea is good there. it makes me happy at least.
definitely nothing wrong with surprise sexiness.





and if you feel like you're always the one initiating all the cuddling and stuff then also nothing wrong with leaving it to him once in a while.





just make sure you don't act distant while you're doing this because that will cause problems.
i think the problem is with u. ur too observant. you should just relax and not watch silly things like the way he hugs u or the way he kisses u. i think if he is kissing u and cuddling u then does appriciate u. u should stop being paranoid and just relax
My boyfriend loves cuddling, no matter how uncomfortable it may get. He probably just doesn't like you as much as you like him.
always look at him with a cheesy smile
i think you shouldn't push him or anything. if he wanted to he would it himself.
hmm i know what you mean..





... i basically do what you do
4] kiss him alot ....my bf loves it =]
Hmmmm, GOOD QUESTION.





usually after time, people kinda just maybeee take eachother for granted? idk if thats the word but like u know they kinda get used to eachother i guess and things change. My girlfriend loves cuddling but sometimes i just want to be left alone, ur boyfriend kinda sound like me. now i appreciate her VERY much and she means the world to me. but the thing is im just bad at showing it. Playing hard to get will not help anything, never has never will. The best thing u should do is sit down with him and tell him how u feel, let him know that u feel unappreciated. if u play hard toget he may begin to wonder if ur cheating on him. that is one of the main signs of cheating so that defantly isnt the answer. all u can do is tell him what u expect and what is bothering u and if he loves u he will work on it. surprise him with things u know buy him a little something every now and then that u know he likes. Maybe cook up something really good for him every once in awhile, it all helps.
Well you could always start by telling him what u want form him..guys really dont understand girls hints twards what they want..if u want something from him tell him! like if u want him to cuddle more ask him one day out of the blue how come u dont like to cuddle with me? Some guys just dont like to cuddle tho. try sharing a blanket on the couch and interlock ur legs together or curl up behind him while watching tv and wrap ur arms around him. These little hints sometimes will connect with him and he will realize thats what u want him to do to u. Being sexy when he least expects it is a great way to get any guys fire started. and then once u do tell him u would apprecate being surprised by him like that too.(and in other ways) This will keep both of u interested in ur relationship and not let it die out..