Help with ex boyfriend drama?!?

Okay, I hooked up with some guy, and at first we were just talking and whatnot, but then he kissed me. So a few days later he asks me out, then he is my boyfriend. He has an ex girlfriend who he was together with for three years, and when he kissed me, at the time he had a girlfriend but never told me!! He broke up with her that night (due to relationship problems, not about me). So me and him go out for a month. It was absolutely amazing! (:


Then at the end of our month he texts me telling me his feelings are coming back for his ex-girlfriend, so we break up...


Three weeks go by, and he calls me one night telling me he is thinking about me, and we started chatting it up again, he came over everyday for a week and he asked me back out. Were together for a couple weeks, and at the time I made him promise not to ever talk to his ex again.


This weekend I texted him asking what he is doing, and he says on the phone, so im like ';Okay';


His Ex texted me saying, ';Stop texting Antonio, im trying to talk to him'; and so I immediatly was angry with him, and told him, ';If your not done with her, your done with me, goodbye';


So he texts me later, explaining himself, saying he only called to give her, her stuff back. And were talking now, and it sounds as if were still together, but I know were not, and he is trying to get back with me, and I just so happen to be transfering to the school he is going to, (not for him), and he is back with his ex, and yet again, he was texting me last night telling me how much of a mistake he made, and he was telling me he didnt wanna be with her, it was a mistake that wasnt meant to happen, and he was asking if there could be a 'us' again... I played hard to get all night but, eventually do I crush him, or take him back?Help with ex boyfriend drama?!?
Burned once, shame on him; burned twice, shame on you.





I think that you should move on to bigger and better things. Or if you really like him enough that you'd risk going out with him have a long talk about it. Sit him down when you're alone and explain that you're not going to put up with his crap. Either he likes her or he likes you. But he needs to pick one and stop flip flopping between you too. And if he says he can't you've gotta break it off (or keep it broken off) and tell him goodbye for good :( im sorry but that's pretty much the only way (in my opinion) to do it with as little heart break as possible.





Hope I helped and GOOD LUCK!Help with ex boyfriend drama?!?
He sounds very confused. If you are developing real feelings for them i would say crush him because you wouldnt want to get with him and then 6 mths down the line he leaves you for her. If your feelings arent real then just have fun with him and enjoy yourslef
two words for you . . . . Commitment Issues. . . . . The dude needs to pick a girl and stick with her or just go along being single. Just from that story you wrote he sounds like a idiot that takes advantage of girls.
please dont be one of those girls that are stupiddly blind by his words. he sounds like a d-bag probably is a d-bag and is trying to keep both of you. if both you girls were smart you both would be gone. if you dont leave and stop everything with him, have fun continuing to be hurt and having to deal with this stupid immature ****.
dont go back to him!


he had his second chance...


and he messed it up thats his problem...


you deserve better...


you need to take a step forwards in life and not one back...


hes not worth it...


ive been through this a milllion times with guys...


hes using you as a backup and you dont want that...