How much time shoud you spend together at the beginning? ?

This questions is for young adults/ full time workers. Men: when you first start dating a woman, how often do you hang out with them in the first month? (I have been dating this man for three weeks and we have only hung out once a week- total of three times). He doesn't call a lot etiher - only to make plans and says he wants to see me soon. Why is he moving so slowly? And he has been a total gentlemen the whole time. Should I call him or say something? What should I do because I am really starting to like him. Should I play hard to get and wait to hear from him? Girls with boyfriends (20's and 30's) how long did it take for you to really get to know your boyfriend? I feel like its not moving fast enough adn wondering if he is into me..its been three weeks and he says things like ';i want to see you soon'; but then doesn't call for 4 days. Is he just taking it slow?...any adivce from guys? how long do you wait?How much time shoud you spend together at the beginning? ?
Just go with the flow.





If you are free, ask him on a date. Say something like... ';I'm got nothing to do on friday, lets go bowling.'; He'll ask you on dates as comfortably he can do. If he likes you enough, he'll want to spend more time with you.