I NEED SOME HELP LADIES. WHAT R YOUR TAKE ON THIS?

almost 26 years old, male, still a virgin, never been in a relationship with a girl ever in my life. as pure as it comes.





this girl responded to a classified add of mine on myspace about 3 months ago. she lives about 25 minutes away but we've never met. we've been talking via online and text messaging. it sounds cheesy i know, but i've grown quite attached to her. it's like we had this serious relationship and connection, but we've never met.





i've been telling her how i wanted to meet her. but she never really got the hint. last night i asked her flat out. i want to take you on a date. she then tells me she is not looking for a boyfriend and does not do dates.





we send each other pictures and videos to talk and mess around on there. she seemed really into me, and still does. i really really like her. but she continues to tease me by taking naughty pictures of herself and encouraging me to return the favor.





now i'm just confused. do women like playing these kinds of games? my add clearly stated i was looking for a serious relationship and i laid out all my info on the table. i've been nothing but honest, as i know she has. i feel we have this chemistry. is she just pulling me along for a ride and using me or do you think she's just playing hard to get? advice please.I NEED SOME HELP LADIES. WHAT R YOUR TAKE ON THIS?
i think she is just taking advantage i wouldnt be surprised if she has got a husband or a boyfriend and she just does this for cheap thrills! too be honest i wouldnt bother anymore if you are looking for a relationship you are obviously looking in the wrong place if she doesnt feel the same. i would cut her off and try again you will meet the perfect person one day!!I NEED SOME HELP LADIES. WHAT R YOUR TAKE ON THIS?
OMG, well basically you got a trick online just messing around SHES PROBABLY MARRIED, AND just doing this for kix, I would take my ad off line and repost it later or maybe in a different section or just go out and meet someone, and see if sparks fly with someone you meet in person. Oh and congrats onyour ready to wait status, good decision. hope everything works out for you!
Sounds like she is either involved with someone else and just talking to you while on her alone time OR she is really a he, trust me - I had a gay male friend who used to do that but he dressed as a woman and actually went to meet a few people.
RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!! Please, Please, Please don't waste yourself on a girl like this. Is this really the best you think you can do? Any girl would be lucky to find a guy who has waited to have a real relationship, she is NOT THE ONE! Don't blow this--- be ready for when the RiGHT one comes along :)
sounds to me like she just wants to have fun...not a real relationship... because if u asked her out straight out that ur interested on goin on a date and she said no then right there and then it should give u the hint that she's not the one and that u need to move on to the next best thing....good luck
She might be married and you are her cyber bf. There is no substitute for meeting girls in life and asking them out.
Okay. One. Calm down and Breath. As for this, i can personally say she seems to be playing the game that i played on my boyfriend before we started dating, minus the naughty pictures. If she is flaunting herself to you and seems to ';as into this'; as you are, then she is probably testing you to see, if you are one of those guys that f*** and duck. As for the way she seems to be putting herself out, try asking her questions that dig deeper into her feelings about you. Ask questions that can help you determine, if she is really into you, or if she is just playing with your head.





If she responded to the ad (which she did), then she probably wanted a serious relationship as well. Give it some thought and try to have an open and honest conversation with her, about how you are feeling and i bet in the long run it will pay off.





As for liking someone that you met online, there is nothing wrong with that, and it is not cheesy. A lot of people end up finding eachother online. So take a deep breath!





From the way you described your feelings that you have for her, you might want to tell her how you truly feels, to see if she does in return.





After all of this, you might come to find that she likes you the same, or you might get heart broken, but at least you were honest and that is all that a person can ask for.





Yes women do like playing these kinds of games, not all but some.Sometimes we do it to test the person that we like. Sometimes we do it to be a plain bi***. So take some time to think about it and listen to things that she says and you will be able to catch on. Look for things like:


my ex


her talking about other guys


changing the subject when its an important topic.


anger when u don't send inappropriate pictures





Again, I wish you the best of luck!






You have been honest so far, so just keep going. Tell her you are looking for a serious relationship, one that involves a face to face meeting. If she is not interested in meeting, then you two are not after the same thing and should immediately stop wasting each others time. Life is too short. Just because you enjoy eachother's company and care for one another does not meant it was meant to be.





Before you lay out an ultimatum, make sure she isn't just afraid to meet you - maybe a group setting might be a nice comprimise, the internet is a great tool, but every lady has hear horror stories about internet romeos turned creepy sicko.