Monday, August 9, 2010

Why would my Boyfriend want to continue our relationship if he has no intention towards marriage with me?!?

Why would my boyfriend want to continue dating me if he has no intentions towards marrying me? My boyfriend %26amp; I have been dating a little more than 10 months. He's 26 %26amp; I am 21. Im not looking for marriage right now. So please don't think that...but I also thought that you don't going into a relationship if there is no potential towards marriage!? Isn't it wasting time? I am just very curious as to how this relationship is or will be...is he playing hard to get...or am I just a good ,so they say ';****';


He seems like a very great guy. But keep in mind our relationship does feel like a business transaction at times. We both have professional careers therefore we don't use the word honey all too much. We have not said the 3 letter word yet (I love you). Although the first month he said it when he was drunk but does not remember.


We practically live together. I've been staying at his home which he lives with his parents for more than 4 months straight everyday.





If your going to say: ';just talk to him ask him';


We some what came across it already. His response was I want us to live day after day. He also said I don't have what he is expecing in a wife. That is why I am posting this up for some advice.


If you can please help that would be great. Thank you very much for your time!!! :)Why would my Boyfriend want to continue our relationship if he has no intention towards marriage with me?!?
youve only been dating 10 months.


its hard to know for sure if you are made for marriage.


it takes a long time to get to know someone fully.


he may not know what he wants completely when it comes to marriage.


he may say those things now but who knows a year from now how he will feel about the subject.


if your not thinking about marriage then stop analyzing his thoughts on it and enjoy the relationship you haveWhy would my Boyfriend want to continue our relationship if he has no intention towards marriage with me?!?
Basically He gets the benefits of marriage with out the commitment and has you around as a companion.
If you're not happy and don't see a future. . . get out of the relationship. He's going to say what he thinks you want to hear to keep you hanging. Listen to your intuition and get on with your life. Don't let anyone hold you back. Next thing you know 10 months is going to be 10 years and still no change. Good Luck!

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