How do you get your man to miss you?

So apparently, men go through phases. In the beginning (before we were official), my boyfriend worked very hard to get me (he had to know i'm worth working hard for and I had to know if he was someone who was worth it in my book). He's a gentleman, a funn and caring guy to all and I'm happy and lucky to be with a guy like him. So after that phase, they go into this ';comfy'; phase where they don't really work that hard. Thing about us is that we're not your average couple - we're both very independent people and were aware we had our busy schedules to maintain but still made time for each other, while having our own ';me'; time/time w. friends. He texts me ';good morning';, text for a bit about our plans and i usually don't text or call him...every now and then to tell him ';i miss him'; or asking how work is going but nothing too much...and he calls me at night before he goes to sleep. But w. this ';comfy'; phase, he's starting to slack off a little...still consistent but is kind of slacking. I don't really do anything about it but just sit back and let him do whatever. It's hard to get him to miss me when I don't really bug him that much to begin with...and I don't wanna play either. Even all my guy friends say guys do this sometimes and it's very normal. As Dr. Gray says, ';men are like rubberbands';. They love you, leave, and come back. How do I get him to miss me more when I already give him space?How do you get your man to miss you?
Find some outside interests to occupy a bit more of you time without him. It's that simple.





Just fyi...these are mind games.





There is nothing wrong with being ';comfy'; with each other if it makes you both happy.





Or..you can play the games. Whatever works for you guys.How do you get your man to miss you?
when a man is in love, he hates being away from her, its not a guy thing to not miss someone. they will if they are in love. if not, that's a different story. they're surprisingly just like women in that aspect, they miss a girl if they love the girl and if they don't miss her they don't love her. 2 + 2 = 4.
ok...the chasing game is over, just accept it. You are now a couple. Sounds to me you want him to chase you more then you're willing to do yourself. Start by putting some efforts into this yourself and you'll see he will follow your lead.