Is he playing hard to get?

hi well im 16 and having guy troubles, im into acting and filmin as im a media an film student and outside of the course i met a doctor who also wa a director, he tild me everything hed done expecting me to be impressed but because i thought he was lying all along i just thout okay this guy is a jerk, he was nice but i thought the lies were too much. But then i found out that he was ligit, he actually is a full time heart %26amp; lung surgeon and a part time director and publisher. Okay do i mudt admit this did impress me but i still showed little interest in him, as the weeks went by me and my boyfriend split up and we both poured our hearts out about both our exes, whenever i saw him talking to other girls on facebook or aka-aki i got really jealous but it was over the simplest things, like he'd be online and hed talk to other girls and ignore all my messages. Eventually we decided to meet up again as thr first time was only brief, it was a great day and i was so pleased to finally be with him, he made ig clear that he didnt want a relationsgip as it was too soon for us both so we just had some fun, however the next morning he drove me home and i asked him if id see him again and he said ';ill text you'; dont know what that means in boy lingo but the rest o the day he didnt text so i texted him asking him why it was taking him so long to reply to my small messages, he said e was driving but when i went online i saw he was talking to some girl. After late he texted saying ';its weird, your texting ha tripled since we met, your taking it too extreme'; so i calmed mh texring down a little and then yesterday i messaged him trelling him i was away in manchester an that i may be busy and he didnt text back all day so i messaged him asking how his day had been and he didnt reply but et again was online. i give up. have i pushed him away?


its like he hates me or something.Is he playing hard to get?
Just to be clear- I'm not judging at all.





this isn't going to be easy to hear, but if you're willing to listen I bet you can make it.





So I'm assuming hes much older than you. At least what.. 25 to be practicing medicine? If hes really a surgeon probably older.


It sounds like he's a player. Now this doesn't make him an awful person he just has libido and likes a chase. But it does mean there are... rules.





First of all. Since he's older he automatically understands and sees the world in a different way, I know it sounds completely weak.. but it's true. There are things you simply won't understand until you are older. Some of these things are patience, and knowing that problems are very rarely as huge as they seem.


Guys, are so easy to smother, and players easier still. So if you really want his attention. You have got to stop txting. And I don't mean just txting I mean any and all form of communication.You do this for several reasons. A) It will provide chase. If he thinks you're not interested or unattainable, he WILL want you. Its how they work.


B) to find out if the guy actually cares. If hes interested believe me he will come to you. But ONLY if you stop going to him. You have to wait. If he never does, move on he's not worth it. The result of a relationship is for two people to be happy and grow together. C) It will impress him. Guys ( all guys) want a chick that has her own life. They need to know that the girl can leave them alone at any given point during the day D) It will help you stop thinking bout the entire issue.





He's already told you that he's surprised you're txting has increased. Meaning hes not ready, or willing for what ever reason to take things to another level emotionally. Things mean different things for men than woman.





So.. I'm assuming you've had sex then? according to the '; next morning drive'; and '; just have fun';


If you get his attention again. Don't sleep or do anything sexual with him. Keep him wanting, his excitement will just build- that's what you want.. I'm betting that he gave you a lot more attention before you slept together right? So let the anticipation grow again. hate to put it this way.. but you will either grow closer together and enjoy sex again.. or he'll find another '; easier'; girl.





Remember there are those guys out there.. that don't care.. that try to seduce women.. then just drop everything as soon as they find an excuse to do so. Then theres the guys that are legitimately hurt.. or just trying to find a chase before picking the one they want for a relationship. The only way to really know for sure is to try.





and lastly. Remember it's you're decision. The Ball is ALWAYS in you're court as to how long you want to try. DO NOT be too hard on you're self if it doesn't work out. You can't be everything someone wants. No one can and if the one you want.. isn't willing to accept your quirks or at least compromise with you a little what ever those quirks are. Don't be with them it will only hurt later on.





.. I'm sorry this sounds so preachy. I have a great deal of experience in this matter. Just remember. What ever you decide is You're decision. DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT FOR YOU!!!!!!!!


-desIs he playing hard to get?
He doesn't hate you, but you probably did push him away. If he really Has'nt talked to you, and he's talking to other girls, than he doesn't want a relationship with you, i'm sorry about that =(
he is playing hard to get





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yeah he is. move on!
You could always improve on your grammar b it ch? The piece reads distinctly adolescent with several abbreviations which have no place in our universe, let alone the world of literacy basics or nokia text chat. For an extremely long essay like this to read well, you need to capitalise, paragraph and add commas. Also try to structure the piece so it has body. Any elementary level english teacher will tell you that it needs to have a beginning, middle and end - I am not a teacher. I have no education beyond secondary, yet even I know this. Just a suggestion, hope it helps and please stay off the internet so you don't look like an idiot.
Kirsty kirsty kirsty and her guy troubles


you are cool





listen


all you need to do


is relax


chill


take it easy girl


you are going to be alright


step outside from time to time


look at the sky


take a deeper breath and let it all go!





exhale





enjoy those acting and film lessons


the doctor he caN TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF


dont worry about tomorrow


because tomoorrow can also take care of itself


great ...hes ligit, ..he actually is a full time heart %26amp; lung surgeon and a part time director and publisher. Okay awesome


so what!


if it impresses you then it does


if it doesnt then it doesnt


dont be so sidetracked by it all


and dont be so stricked on whether it does impress or not


just let each day be each day in itself


without trying to direct every thought





just chill little dog and even though you are a beautiful young woman this song will help!


it helped me


a perfect song from styx off the GRAND ILLUSION album


your fooling yourself (the angry young man)





relax! take it easy!


You see the world through your cynical eye


You're a troubled young man I can tell


You got it all in the palm of your hand


But your hand's wet with sweat


And your head needs a rest





And you're fooling yourself if you don't believe it


You're kidding yourself if you don't believe it





Why must you be such an angry young man


When your future looks quite bright to me


And how can there be such a sinister plan


That could hide such a lamb


Such a caring young man





And you're fooling yourself if you don't believe it


Fooling yourself


You're kidding yourself if you don't believe it


Kidding yourself





Get up, get up, get back on your feet


You're the one they can't beat and you know it


Yeah, come on, come on, let's see what you've got


Just take your best shot and don't blow it, whoa-o-oh





so kirsty stop fooling yourself


you will be fine





you're cool remember

















do i mudt admit this did impress me but i still showed little interest in him, as the weeks went by me and my boyfriend split up and we both poured our hearts out about both our exes, whenever i saw him talking to other girls on facebook or aka-aki i got really jealous but it was over the simplest things, like he'd be online and hed talk to other girls and ignore all my messages. Eventually we decided to meet up again as thr first time was only brief, it was a great day and i was so pleased to finally be with him, he made ig clear that he didnt want a relationsgip as it was too soon for us both so we just had some fun, however the next morning he drove me home and i asked him if id see him again and he said ';ill text you'; dont know what that means in boy lingo but the rest o the day he didnt text so i texted him asking him why it was taking him so long to reply to my small messages, he said e was driving but when i went online i saw he was talking to some girl. After late he texted saying ';its weird, your texting ha tripled since we met, your taking it too extreme'; so i calmed mh texring down a little and then yesterday i messaged him trelling him i was away in manchester an that i may be busy and he didnt text back all day so i messaged him asking how his day had been and he didnt reply but et again was online. i give up. have i pushed him away?


its like he hates me or something.
You could always improve on your grammar? The piece reads distinctly adolescent with several abbreviations which have no place in our universe, let alone the world of literacy basics or nokia text chat. For an extremely long essay like this to read well, you need to capitalise, paragraph and add commas. Also try to structure the piece so it has body. Any elementary level english teacher will tell you that it needs to have a beginning, middle and end - I am not a teacher. I have no education beyond secondary, yet even I know this. Just a suggestion, hope it helps and please stay off the internet so you don't look like an idiot.