I busted my boyfriend on facebook!!?

Ok, so i have been dating this guy for a year. We are in a long distance relationship right now because we go to different schools. Lately he has been making friends with alot of girls, but he always assures me it's not like that. So i have this cousin that is really pretty and she actually lives like 2 hours away from him school so we thought it would be funny to play with him on facebook, yes, i know it was childish, whatever. Anyways, i had her request him as a friend on facebook, thats all, and he wrote her this message.


Him: you're a pretty girl. What's good? I'm bout to leave here in a bit but to come back and find a message from you telling me about yourself a bit would't be too bad. Hope to hear from you soon...





so, she called me and told me to log into her facebook, and i did. Basically this is how the conversation has been thus far...i've been logging into her account pretending to be her, he doesn't know she is my cousin, or that i know her.





Me:lol, hey thanks hun. what do you want to know? Not much to tell. I'm single?





Him:Word? What you do here in georgi? I'm new here so I don't know too much about the state and what not. What made you hit me up ( I know tough question) and when can I meet you, **** it you're hot. I really don't like to play stupid games, ya dig?





Me: Your pretty forward, lol. By what do i do in georgia? I'm guessing you mean what is my profession? I'm currently an Rn. I just moved to Atlanta so i'm kind of in a new place too. As far as meeting up with you, Valdosta is kind of far, and pretty boring, lol.





I'm on fire right now! My boyfriend had the audacity to call me this morning bc i went out to the club last night, and ask me if i gave my number to anyone, and when i said no, like fifty times he didn't believe me! Ok, so then he goes on this tangent about how he misses me sooooooo much, and he's so lonely without me, and he wants me to come see him, and he can't wait to graduate so we can get married one day. I'm thinking i can't trust him. It's really hard for me to keep talking to and act like everything is normal right now, but i want to continue this thing on facebook until i see how far he will go, then i'm just going to bust his ***! Do you think i should just end it now? Ladies what would you do?I busted my boyfriend on facebook!!?
Oh my god, seriously DUMP that loser!


He would cheat on you, is that not obvious? Just cut all contact with him.





Oh, here's an idea. Have her send him a message saying, ';Oh, i'm just sitting right here with my cousin ';your name here'; and were doing this, Oh, and she says hi';.





Wow, he will be ashamed..





But really, he is disrespecting you... looks like he is not committed..I busted my boyfriend on facebook!!?
hell no! lol good for you..keep him going and stuff..


what an asshole! ur right bust his ***..but first make him fall in love with ur cousin...then itll really hurt him when he finds out its not you


then meet up with him..him thinking hes going to meet ur cousin..


lol i did the same thang..
I know damn well my man would nevaaa do this.


He knows.


The thing is.


You gotta lay down the law. Confront him about facebook.


What he did was sneaky, wrong, and a bastard move honey.


Sure what you did wasn't exactly right either but what he did wasn't any worse.


Don't end it just yet.


Try and work it out
Take it as far as it can go until you get something more convincing out of him. Thats not enough to work on. but i say continue on face book and surprise his sorry A** for all that he's worth. oh an if he is cheating on you dont think twice, u know what u gotta do.
First of all, if he were smart, wouldn't he be able to see that you are mutual friends with your cousin? I'm sure he'd be able to figure it out soon enough.





Secondly, it's not that great of an idea to mess with your boyfriend like that. You're dangling bait right in front of him... sooner or later he will figure it out! I promise.





You're in college, and most long distance relationships don't work. Just end it now... and have your own fun!
I would see how far it goes on fb...if it's just a flirtatious conversation I wouldn't sweat it- he is probably just killing time. If the convo becomes heated I would also!
dump him if he is cheating on you tell him that it was you on that sight
Don't end it.Keep up the surade and find out really how he is.If he would screw around on you then you got your answer.If you can't trust him then there is no relationship.Good for you.I don't blame you at all. Start talking dirty to him and tell him you want his body and stuff like that.Then arrange to meet with him for sex. Then you show up. Then that's it you will know for sure if he can be true or not.Good luck.It might be sneaky but at least you will know.
i think you should like say you will meet up with him then when you go to meet up with him its going to be you there, and say im off facebook say i no what you been doing chatting u other girls. then jus see what he has to say.
Am presently in this situation where my boyfriend told his ex he loved her. He has no sensible answer for his actions so out of anger and rage I cursed him off and I have not spoken to him in over a week. However, I am not advising you to do like wise. Presently I am in great pain because I still love him and I am doing every thing in my power to get over him. I have written him on numerous occasions but I have not sent them to him. These letters have actually helped me greatly in dealing with my feelings for him.


But I would advise you to weigh out your options if he is some one you can see yourself with in the future than have a mature conversation with him. If not move on it will hurt but you will get over him.
wow, thats kinda mean





dont ya think





seriously dont screw with people minds like that!! thats what we men call being a b**** and a fa g. so just end it now.