My boyfriend is making our relationship so hard. help?

me and my boyfriend have been dating since the ninth of april, and well he is a big manwhore. and the girl he dated before me he has known since they were in dipers. well he would never let me see his phone all i had ever seen was me as his screen saver. well i got his phone one day and i read his phone and on the 22nd they were texting and she had said how she loved him and that he was her first love and that whenever she is with her boyfriend all she thinks about is him. while her boyfriend is like my big brother. and i havent told him that she said that. but he told her he loved her back. and i was so upset. i confronted him about that and he said that he really couldnt do anything but say he was sorry shes like a sister. and i said but thats not the kind of love she has for you and dont play me stupid thats not the ';love'; you have for her either. there a difference between the love you have for your mother and the love you have for your girlfriend. you wouldnt make out with your mother. i dont understand if you love her so much why dont you just go date her. he said i can like someone and date someone else. and i didnt say anything back that hurt so bad. and my friend found out and she said no! he can lpose her number and she can loose his. so i told him that and he got mad and said i have to loose a friends number? and i just dont know what to do please someone give me some adviceMy boyfriend is making our relationship so hard. help?
it all sound to complicated its only been a few weeks and that's normally the happiest time so i say if you think he likes his ex more then just cut all ties i know you will feel sad but it wont be for long. but the longer you stay with him the harder it will be! sometimes we are better on our own just for some peace of mind. some men can cause such stress to us, but at the end of the day its our choice stay and put up with the s h i t or let them go, after many failed relationships ive been in, i know now to move on quickly and now i dont get stressed with my new man and its great,but if he meses with my head im gone lol good luck hun xxMy boyfriend is making our relationship so hard. help?
If it bothers you then break up. Better now than later when you're still having this same problem.
He obviously has these feelings for her, and he's writing I love you to her? Dump him. You don't deserve that.
I had a similar problem. It's true he can like one person and date another. I know it hurts, but that's life. But he should NOT be in contact with her while he's with you if 1) he know it bothers you and 2) she has a BF. I'd give him one more chance, just talk to him honestly and calmly how you feel. And ask how he'd feel if things were reversed. If he can't be sensitive to your feelings, tell him you can't deal with the sitch like it is and you have to move on.
it sounds pretty complicated. u have to go with your gut feeling. although he is still with u isn't he? he must love u. does he say he loves u? if not then ask him if he loves u.
dump.him.
really girl this relationship is going down hill at 1,000 MPH (miles per hour) ive been in a realtion ship like this not so long ago and found out when we broke up that he had indeed cheated on me , its really depressing to be like this , i didnt want to leave him as i never thought id find anyone else but it was stressing me out i was'nt myself , leave him hes a jerk, your worth loads more than this he obviously dont love you the way you love him , i know its hard to leave but trust me its the best thing you could do . he'l regret it bigtime but just try finding someone much nicer who will treat you well and not tell other people he 'Loves' them





good luck to you and best wishes





p.s i knolw how much it hurts ;-(
stop payng attention to him,


he will beg you to talk to him,


believe me!