What would you think if your boyfriend told you his cellphone is for his eyes ONLY?

Here is the deal, I ask to see his numbers on his cell phone


and he refuses, I just joked around about it, to see how he


would react, and he said I don't want it messed with, and he


turns red in the face while saying this, he is very secretive and


does not open up to any one, I guess you could call him, hard


core, it's like you can not get any information out of him about


any thing, he just gets very quite with no answers to any of


your questions, like playing totally dumb it's like he leaves you


to think what ever you want to think, and at times this can be


very trying on the other person, who would like some answers


in this life time, and if you turn this behavior around and do


this to him, he will not speak to you for 2 or 3 days, I was reading


about this behavior and it is called the silent treatment.What would you think if your boyfriend told you his cellphone is for his eyes ONLY?
I understand him feeling a bit violated but the bottom line is- there is something he doesn't want you to see. It's really that simple.





You shouldn't put up with that. If you two are in a committed relationship he shouldn't need his call logs to be off limits- why would he?





He leaves you no choice but to be suspicious and is only making the situation worse.What would you think if your boyfriend told you his cellphone is for his eyes ONLY?
It sounds like there's something going on... Also, be careful of continuing this relationship when you're putting in much more than he is. Also, it's childish to give your girlfriend the ';silent treatment.'; Really? Are we teenagers? Then again, I don't know your ages.





Either way, he sounds like he may have some major issues to overcome, both with you and his self.





Good luck.
i don't exactly know if he is hiding something but there was a case in which my girlfriend wanted to go through my phone and i simply said no, i told her that ones phone is private. i had nothing to hide but that's just the way i felt about. a few months later she went through my phone while i slept which resulted in me losing some trust in her. think about what your going to do before you do it.
well he just doesn't want you looking through his cellphone. he probably feels that it shouldn't matter to you who his contacts in his phone are. it is really none of your business anyway and he probably also didn't know that you were joking around with him when you asked him to see the contacts in his cellphone.
He probably just wants you to respect his privacy. If you don't like the silent treatment, dump him. Do you have reason to suspect he is cheating?


He doesn't sound like the right kind of guy for you.


Would you want him going through your cell phone? That is an invasion or privacy and controlling behavior.
yeah, hes def hiding something, even if thats not exactly what you want to here. even if youve been dating for a while.. his mind might be trailing off to someone else and hes trying to talk to them and he doesnt want you to find out.





what i would do is try to know where he is most of the time when hes not with you.. and if it gets very out of hand bring it up to him and see what he has to say about it
he's just a private person. if he was cheating on you, he'd be a moron not to delete texts/phone calls before coming home. is there a reason you don't trust him? I don't like people going through my phone either, not even my boyfriend of 2 years.
I think it depends on how long you've been dating. At the start of a relationship I do think there are certain boundaries that need to be respected.





However if this is a serious exclusive, long-term relationship, He probably is hiding something.
I would think he's hiding something. He's a cheater is the first thing I thought. Even a private person has people they open up to, and his reactions seem out of line with the situation. I wouldn't waste my time on someone like him.
he is keeping a secret, or hiding somethign from you, I wouldnt like that, mabye you dont really wnat to see it but teh fact that if you did nd he wouldnt let you is shady.
It's a red flag. You probably should shop around for a new boyfriend. He's guilty of something.
There is something on that phone that he knows you wouldn't approve of, or he feels guilty. He's not the guy you want then.
i think he's hiding something. if there's nothing to hide, he would allow you to answer any call or even read his texts by you
I wouldn't be with him.





I don't deal with behavior like that.





It makes me think that he is hiding something.
If he wasn't hiding anything, he wouldnt care.
reverse the situation, get a friend to text you when you are with him, be all secretive about it and see if he likes it
He's probably been looking at porn on it/cheating on you.
That pretty much means that he is hiding something
He's got something to hide.
Usually thats a red flag.





But what if he is a business man and all of his contacts are for business. He wouldn't want you to be looking at those contact list.
Oh I don't know but it sounds like he has something to hide.....





With my fiance we've been together almost 4 yrs now, but from day one the phone thing was never an issue...just naturally if his phone rang and he couldn't get to it in time he'd ask to pick it up.... and I naturally did the same for him. I know that if I kept my cell log secret it would be a major issue and the same for him b/c we believe there's something to hide.





I do have an X friend whom her boyfriend always did the exact same thing always hiding his cell contacts and call logs from her, yet he would FLIP OUT if she hid anything from him... he would even have the gaul to take her cell and keep it with him for a week to see who called in!!!!! turns out the Creep was cheating on her the ENTIRE 6 years! and he had major female contacts on there, where she later found out were ';friends with benefits';.
The silent treatment is something people do who can't communicate. Almost 100% of the time they are immature. All it does it make a bad thing worse. I watched my husband's ex-roommate cheat on every girl he ever dated. Every number in his phone was coded. For Amy it was Am or something like that. Just in case the girl got a hold of his phone. If you want more from this relationship, you might have to move on. He is either hiding something or wants you to believe he's hiding something so at some point he can make you out to be paranoid and use that against you. If every time he gets mad he doesn't speak to you, that's pretty unhealthy. There are good men out there, you just have to keep looking.