Monday, August 16, 2010

Does my boyfriend really Love me?

I LOVE him and I know he LOVES me but sometimes we fight because I'm very sensitive and I get mad when he starts playing around a lot, it gets annoying! He'll say ';I'm going to school and Im going to cheat on you'; or ';I don't think its working out'; and every time he says those things I start crying my eyes out because he says it like he means it and once he sees me crying he'll apologize and stuff but sometimes he gets annoyed because I get mad at him and he once threw his phone because I didn't tell him why I was sad and he was really mad and I was crying a lot. I get tired of this but I seriously CANNOT imagine myself with anyone else but him and he said the same to me. GAH is it me? What am I doing wrong? Sometimes it seems like he doesn't Love me as much as he used to when I was shy and barely talked but now I'm not shy around him and I guess I'm annoying because I'm loud and I slap him but I don't mean it and I don't slap him hard. I always wonder if he still feels the same way. What do you think? Am I doing something wrong? How can I change? :/ OH and how can I get him to STOP talking about other girls he says hes playing around and stuff and I know he is but it still hurts, you know how someone says something and you know they're playing around but it still hurts so you pretend to laugh with them? Well I do that like 1000 times a day when Im with him. Hes always saying something like ';She thinks I look hot'; ; ';Girls are always trying to flirt with me'; or ';I think shes hot'; blablabla. and I know hes playing around but I get mad and hes like ';I cant even play around a little? your SO sensitive gosh!'; and it really hurts my feelings. :/ so yea help!Does my boyfriend really Love me?
well its been a year with him his of course going to act different from like the 1st 3 months.....but try to expalin to him that wat he says its not funny and that really hurts you...but dont start crying and making him feel bad bcuz his abously going apologize about it. if you dont cry youll see hes real feeling for you.(confrunt him about it) hell act way different trust me.like i said try to talk to him about your realtionship!oh NO its not you just by reading your post i knew it wasnt your fault...maybe his not taking your relationship with him serious anymore! trust me guys could be jerks sometimes theyll do/say anything just to make us feel bad try tlking to him if he doesnt want to listen then he just doesnt care anymore...you might have to end it there....but i hope it works out and good LUCK...Does my boyfriend really Love me?
all you have to do is put out more and your boyfriend will not say crude comments like that to you.





ps; boys don't like sensitive girls so desensitize immediately





pps; honey with that hair cut i don't blame him !





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all the above could be resolved by your answer to the following question:





%26lt;does he feel happy when you do it to each other%26gt;


if yes don't be mad, keep relax while you r with him


good luck
Stop being crazy and all these problems will disappear.
hmmmmm, yes yes very interesting ..... go on go on
you to young to know what love is, you got puppy love
no.
Sorry to have to tell you this, but your bf sounds really immature.


Hes playing mind games with you, as he knows youll always react. He sounds like hes insecure, and saying things like hes gonna cheat sounds more than a little manipulative.


Next time he says it, smile sweetly and say 'yeah, whatever'.


Look as if you dont care, and see how he reacts. It may even shock him into growing up and treating you with respect! If not, then at least youll know where you stand and can decide whether to stay with him or not.
It's hard to say if someone loves someone else when you can't see that relationship but it doesn't sound like he is taking the relationship as seriously as you. He knows the little things that he is saying about other girls bothers you so why does he keep doing it? Attention? A way to tell you he likes other girl? Or maybe he likes to keep you jealous and off kilter so he can feel like he's controlling you. Either way, i think you should distance yourself from him and find a man that will love and care about hurting your feelings and notice if something is wrong. No man is perfect of coarse but he should still not want to intentionally hurt you with careless constant remarks about other girls looking hot.

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