My bestfriend is dealing with an ex boyfriend, how can i help her without being controlling?

SORRY THIS IS SO LONG BUT PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ IT, I AM DESPRATE FOR HELP





okay so im 13 years old 14 in october and my BEST friend turned 14 today, anyway. personally i think its retarded to date untill your 16 and my friend knows how i feel about it.





NOW





she started dating a guy and i never liked him but i tried keeping it to myself as much as possible cause i didnt want to make her feel weird about it. so she dated him for 6 months then as i thought he turned out to be an azzhole. he said he loved her so much one day and the very next day he dumped her. when she asked why he just said he didnt like her anymore.....





now my friend has a enemy and the relationship between them is keep your friends close and keep your enemys closer. so my friend ets call her amy.





amy has her enemy added to her on her myspace. and her enemy has a friend that she also added......





now 2 days after ';amy's'; breakup her enemys friend's status was going out with lets call him bob) bob today!!!





so turns out he dumped amy for (lets call her jill) jill





so amys brother is best friends with bob. so bob tells (lets call him fred) fred everything, so it turbs out bob and jill had been texting back and forth NUDE pictures of themselfs. AT AGE 14 AND 13





so anyway then jill dumped bob because everyone was starrting rumors about the nude pics. and she was mad at him for telling..





SO then jill got a new boyfriend and had S-E-X with him and aparently recorded it and showed bob.





so now she is known as the school slut.





and bob is known as a player, a jerk, and a perv





OK SO FINALLY WE R AT PRESENT DAY








so now bob cant get any girls so now he is begging amy to get back together with him.....





SO bob asked amy out Through Yahoo IM and amy was like, are you really that wimpy to have to ask me out through im, man up and ask me in person......





So i have been talking with amy cause she tells me everything





and iv ALWAYS not liked bob and now i HATE him.....





but amy is still interested and she wants to ';play hard to get';





HOW DO I let her know that i really hate him and i think its the worste thing she could ever do cause she was so heartbroken when he dumped her suddenly after 6 months





s how can i be supportave of her but at the same time let her know that she shouldnt do it





i really would hate to see them back together but i dont want y friend to stop telling me things because she feels i woudlnt understand and what not





PLZ HELP





AND IM SO F-ING SORRY THAT THIS QUESTION WAS SO LOG, BUT PLZ TAKRE THE TIME TO READ ITMy bestfriend is dealing with an ex boyfriend, how can i help her without being controlling?
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